Update
I thought I'd let you all know that things are looking up for us, right here in Kansas City! One of my friends has been working at home, for the past couple of years, giving one-on-one training in business English over the phone.
The company she works for did a recruitment last summer -- but I was slow to send in my resume, and by the time I did they'd already finished hiring. Well, two weeks ago my friend let me know they were hiring again, so I got my resume in right away, and I just found out a little while ago that I got the job!
So pretty soon I will be working from home part-time, late at night after my girls go to sleep. The late-night hours are available because of the learners being in different (mostly European) time zones. I'm so excited! I'll be bringing in some money, plus connecting with people from all over the world which will greatly broaden my world.
Dh has had more interviews, but no job as of yet. It sounds pretty definite that he will get the extension he applied for on his unemployment, which just ended at the end of February. We've managed to hang on to some of our tax return, which should tide us over if it takes a while for his unemployment checks to resume.
If he still hasn't found a job by the time the company I am working for does another recruitment (they do them a couple of times a year), he will try to get on with them, too.