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Originally Posted by Cecilia's Mama 
Hi everyone! It's been ages since I posted here. My Cecilia is finally here! She came on April 6, when I was exactly 38 weeks. Her birth did NOT go as planned,
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Congratulations.
I read your birth story. I saw a women seize from pre-eclampsia. It wasn't pretty. You made good choices.
I still feel a little sad that at the very end of my birth, my son's heartrate dropped dangerously and they had to cut an episiotomy. I got a healthy son, but still, from time to time, I wish I'd been able to savor his birth just a bit more instead of having to have a rush of worry. So I know how you feel.
Regarding the supplementation. Are you using a lactaid?
http://www.lact-aid.com/ I am adoptive nursing so have supplemented. The lactaid is great because the baby is still at breast so you are getting additional stimulation (and maybe making more milk) plus your baby gets to just nurse at the breast.
As far as pumping from your right breast, usually the baby's suck is better than a pump. Is there some reason you're not just nursing her there. She'd probably get more milk. Also, if you use the supplementer while she's on that breast, she'll get the flow she needs with the supplementer and you'll get the stimulation of having her nurse.
A lot of people tried to give me advice while I have adoptive nursed. Except the advice they gave me was for normal post-partum nursing and is not the same. So, if my advice doesn't apply to you, I apologize. (Though I think the supplementer would be a good idea.) Also, would medications make a difference? I am taking domperidone and Motherlove's More Milk Special Blend. They have helped a lot. However, we are probably in very different boats regarding milk.
I went to the mom/baby group at the birth center every week and weighed my baby to track her weight. I knew when I needed to supplement more based on her weight. It was a good way to tell if I was judging her supplement needs correctly. Do you have a way of getting weekly weights? I'd highly recommend the mom/baby group no matter what. It's a really great way to be with other like-minded mommies. I learned a lot while attending.
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