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Baby doesn't sleep on his own - 3 months

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This is my 2nd child. He's 3 months old, but this is really been since day 1. He is a great sleeper as long as I'm sleeping with him. After he was born i was on bed rest, so literally the first 2 weeks we did sleep together because I didn't have the option to get out of bed. And since I have a demanding older DD, i usually just wear him during the day or lay down with both of them for a midday nap. The only real issue is at night. He seems to be falling asleep around 8-9ish in arms. It does not matter how long i've held him - 10 minutes or an hour, when i lay him down he seems totally out...will be fine for ten minutes, then wakes up crying. I've tried just patting him or laying next to him for a minute, but unless i pick him up it becomes full crying and then he wakes up. The biggest issue is that since we are a cosleeping family, i can't just let him cry because it will wake the 2 year - i'm not saying i would CIO, but i can't sit there patting him while he cries either. I end up holding him all night while DH and I watch TV, but it would be nice to have the option to do something else.

It's funny because my first DD was high-needs, but once we finally got her down she would sleep. With this one, he falls asleep easily, but doesn't stay asleep.
post #2 of 5
We have the same issue, sorry I don't havE any advice! I have just accepted it and try to get everything I need done before ds' bedtime. I figure it won't last forever and will try putting him down again in a few months.
Although, sometimes I can nurse him down in bed and then sneak out and he stays asleep longer. I just put the baby video monitor on and I know when to go back in before he wakes up and freaks out.
Wish I had better advice, some babies are just lighter sleepers, I guess.
post #3 of 5
We co-sleep, but I will say that my DS is almost 4 mos. old and he has just now started laying down on his own for naps. Before it was always napping in a sling or in arms. Give him some time.
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DD had/has this issue. She's 9 months old now. My philosophy is figure out something that works and then make tiny changes. I started by nursing her to sleep in bed and staying with her and reading until DH came to bed and we went to sleep. Then, I'd get so that I could just lay next to her, cuddling but not nursing. Eventually, I'd get so that I could lay next to her but not touching her. Then, sitting next to her, ready to stop knitting and start nursing her if she needed, and eventually, I could get so that I could leave the room and go back in to nurse her to sleep again.

Now, she generally stays up until I go to bed, but most mornings, I can get up and eat breakfast and shower before she gets up. She takes longer naps if I'm there, but she does nap when I'm not there.
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