I cross posted in my ddc too but wanted to get as much feedback as possible. first off let me say that I am 26 yrs old and the father of my child is 27. Neither of us have a history of Down's in our family. So yesterday at my big anatomy scan at 22 weeks the dr said the nuchal fold was measuring big at 7mm and that my baby has an increased risk of having DS. That was the only soft marker. no other markers found like shortened limbs, her heart was find so were her kidneys and everything else. I am refusing the amnio as I am going to keep and love her no matter what and peace of mind isnt worth putting her life at risk. I already had to have one funeral for one of my children I couldnt do it again.
as soon as I got home I began researching everything. I saw that this measurement is usually taken between 11-14 weeks and isnt accurate after that. well I was 22 weeks 1 day yesterday... so why did they still do it. when I asked the dr what the normal range was he said he didnt like to give ranges.... what kind of an answer is that? so I found somewhere that said at 19-21 weeks it should be roughly 5-6mm but Im not sure if thats accurate. If it is... baby measured 7mm at 22 weeks 1 day which isnt too far off.. it could be borderline right? I mean we are talking millimeters here and I know u/s can be off so maybe he was off. I trust him... he has been doing t his for decades, ive seen him with each of my pregnancies, he is well known for his work, people come from all over the country to see him and is dr to celebrities as well. I know his machines are up to date but there is always room for human error.
Id like to know if there are other options. can i get a second opinion? can they do follow up scans to see if it eventually measures "normal"? or will I just have to wait till the baby is born to see if she is ok? can they tell just by looking at her after birth? I hate that Im going to be worried for the next 4 months. I know the stress isnt good for me or baby. Anyone that has info or has btdt please give me input and outcomes of what happened with your baby. tia!
as soon as I got home I began researching everything. I saw that this measurement is usually taken between 11-14 weeks and isnt accurate after that. well I was 22 weeks 1 day yesterday... so why did they still do it. when I asked the dr what the normal range was he said he didnt like to give ranges.... what kind of an answer is that? so I found somewhere that said at 19-21 weeks it should be roughly 5-6mm but Im not sure if thats accurate. If it is... baby measured 7mm at 22 weeks 1 day which isnt too far off.. it could be borderline right? I mean we are talking millimeters here and I know u/s can be off so maybe he was off. I trust him... he has been doing t his for decades, ive seen him with each of my pregnancies, he is well known for his work, people come from all over the country to see him and is dr to celebrities as well. I know his machines are up to date but there is always room for human error.
Id like to know if there are other options. can i get a second opinion? can they do follow up scans to see if it eventually measures "normal"? or will I just have to wait till the baby is born to see if she is ok? can they tell just by looking at her after birth? I hate that Im going to be worried for the next 4 months. I know the stress isnt good for me or baby. Anyone that has info or has btdt please give me input and outcomes of what happened with your baby. tia!










the same for you... it seems to be more common for them to tell you its possible than for it to actually be the case.
It is so common for these soft markers to worry women, and then their little ones be healthy (my sister is one of those women). I would be comfortable asking for another US in a month or so, to see if her (congrats on having a girl!
) kidneys/heart still look good, if she is growing at a normal rate, if they see any other markers, etc. My guess is that she would be exhibiting more markers, or the measurement would be much further off, if she were truly a child with downs. Even if the measurements are correct, babies grow at different rates, and a mm difference does not seem so outside of the range of normal to diagnose anything.

) but have been consistently been measuring (my belly) with my dates perfectly. I just looked at the u/s pic the dr gave me yesterday and it say 18 weeks! wth thats a month behind! no one said anything about the baby being small or anything but isnt that a ds indicator? How could my belly be measuring 22 weeks and her 18? or did they just type a date and it calculated the gestational age... uggg. something new to obsess about....