My son is 10, and has been using Math U See for the past couple of years with great success. Right now he's near the end of the Gamma book, and keeps having the same problem over and over with multiple digit multiplication. He isn't keeping it straight where each digit goes when writing out the problem, keeps mixing them up, not regrouping properly, etc., and of course ends up with incorrect answers. This is causing him anguish. Math has been easy and fun for him until now. I don't want to cause him to hate it permanently, but I'm at a loss as to how to help him get this concept nailed down and progress. He wants to progress. He understands place value to a certain extent, he can write out large numbers using place value notation (i.e. 1,020,713 = 1,000,000 + 20,000 + 700 + 10 + 3), he knows the multiplication tables through the 10s by heart. When he goes to write out a multiplication problem that's more than 2 digits x 1 digit, he gets all mixed up about where all the numbers go. The Math U See lesson DVD is no help, we've watched the relevant lessons together a number of times. I keep showing him how to do it, trying to explain it in different ways, using lined paper turned sideways or graph paper as an aid to keeping columns and rows straight, but it doesn't seem to help. I tried to check the Math U See forum on their website for tips, but it says it's closed for maintenance.
I tried backing off entirely for a while, he did no multiplication at all for several months. I'm not sure if he's just not developmentally ready for this yet or what. I remember myself at his age not doing quite this level of math, at age 10 we were still on single digit multiplication and memorizing times tables (I don't know how that compares to today's school standards, we're independent and I try not to gauge his progress by public school standards, but it's hard not to compare to where I was at the same age). However, he wants to move on to more advanced stuff, including division (Math U See doesn't introduce division until the next level after this one), and I think he needs to get this nailed first. There were some times during my school years when some crucial aspect of a math concept wasn't fully understood before moving on and it caused problems later that had to be remedied in order to progress. I'd rather avoid that with him.
I'd love any suggestions for helping him with this - links, tricks, etc., or just a different perspective. His personality tends towards perfectionism, and often he decides he'd rather not do a thing at all rather than do it "wrong" or not get the results he was hoping for, I have to tread carefully with him in that respect. Help?
I tried backing off entirely for a while, he did no multiplication at all for several months. I'm not sure if he's just not developmentally ready for this yet or what. I remember myself at his age not doing quite this level of math, at age 10 we were still on single digit multiplication and memorizing times tables (I don't know how that compares to today's school standards, we're independent and I try not to gauge his progress by public school standards, but it's hard not to compare to where I was at the same age). However, he wants to move on to more advanced stuff, including division (Math U See doesn't introduce division until the next level after this one), and I think he needs to get this nailed first. There were some times during my school years when some crucial aspect of a math concept wasn't fully understood before moving on and it caused problems later that had to be remedied in order to progress. I'd rather avoid that with him.
I'd love any suggestions for helping him with this - links, tricks, etc., or just a different perspective. His personality tends towards perfectionism, and often he decides he'd rather not do a thing at all rather than do it "wrong" or not get the results he was hoping for, I have to tread carefully with him in that respect. Help?






