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Birthing and Faith Traditions

post #1 of 13
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I was just wondering if anyone has included their faith tradition in their birth(s).

I want to learn more about different rituals surrounding birth and families.
post #2 of 13
Ooo, I really hope some people answer this question, because I think it will be really interesting!
post #3 of 13
The only thing I can think of right now related to the actual birth and Islam, is that when a baby is born, the call to prayer (Azhan) is said in the baby's right ear, and the Iqamah (call to congregational prayer on Friday) is said in the left ear.

There's also a tradition of giving a baby something sweet (like a piece of well chewed date...or date juice) after s/he is born.

Basic translation of Azan is...most lines are said twice...
God is the greatest
I bear witness that there is no deity/god except God
I bear witness that Muhammad is the Messenger of God
Make haste towards worship
Come to the true success
God is the greatest
There is no deity/god except God
post #4 of 13
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Thank you Umsami for sharing that!
post #5 of 13
Our church has an old prayer book that has recently been republished called Starck's Prayer book. It has a whole section of prayers to be prayed over the mother through various stages of labor.
post #6 of 13
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Theretohere - are there any that you find particularly moving?
post #7 of 13
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Umsami - is there a signaficance to each ear that the call to prayers are said in? Also where does the tradition of something sweet come from and what does it signify?
post #8 of 13
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Originally Posted by singin_angel View Post
Theretohere - are there any that you find particularly moving?
Hm, it's tough to say- they are meant to be used together. There's prayers for early labor, for your water breaking, for pushing- it's really comprehensive.
post #9 of 13
I'm Catholic, and while I've read of some prayers that are traditionally said in some countries for labor/birth/newborns/etc, I haven't seen or heard of any practices that are church-wide, rather than regional. That being said, I am planning on incorporating my faith into my birth in a couple of weeks.

With my son's birth, I prayed a lot in labor. I also did something called "offering it up." Catholics believe that pain and suffering, while not a part of God's original plan, can have redemptive value. If Christ's suffering saves us, then suffering can't be all bad. So for as long as I could concentrate well enough to do this (I had a really, really, REALLY long labor, and my spiritual resources gave out long before my son was born, I'm sorry to say), I focused with each contraction on accepting what I was being given and offering it back to God to be used for His purposes. Maybe that's not the clearest explanation, but I think it's the best I can do, off the cuff.

With this birth, I'm also planning on bringing my faith in. I have a copy of an icon known as Our Lady of Perpetual Help. It's the Virgin Mary holding the infant Jesus, and he's got his arms around her neck. I think it's beautiful, and I'm bringing it with me to the birth center as an object to focus on. I've also picked out several psalms for my husband to read to me during contractions, to help me focus and relax. I just went through the bible and picked the psalms I liked, or that struck me as appropriate. I'm also going to asking him to say the Rosary with me--it's a long, repetitive, meditative prayer that I find very comforting. It also helps me connect with my spiritual side and with God. And as before, I'm going to try to take any discomfort or pain and offer it to God for His purposes.

So there you go. Kind of a hodge-podge, and nothing traditionally prescribed by my faith, but those are some things I plan on bringing into the birth with me.
post #10 of 13
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Originally Posted by bluemaydie View Post
I'm Catholic, and while I've read of some prayers that are traditionally said in some countries for labor/birth/newborns/etc, I haven't seen or heard of any practices that are church-wide, rather than regional. That being said, I am planning on incorporating my faith into my birth in a couple of weeks.

With my son's birth, I prayed a lot in labor. I also did something called "offering it up." Catholics believe that pain and suffering, while not a part of God's original plan, can have redemptive value. If Christ's suffering saves us, then suffering can't be all bad. So for as long as I could concentrate well enough to do this (I had a really, really, REALLY long labor, and my spiritual resources gave out long before my son was born, I'm sorry to say), I focused with each contraction on accepting what I was being given and offering it back to God to be used for His purposes. Maybe that's not the clearest explanation, but I think it's the best I can do, off the cuff.

With this birth, I'm also planning on bringing my faith in. I have a copy of an icon known as Our Lady of Perpetual Help. It's the Virgin Mary holding the infant Jesus, and he's got his arms around her neck. I think it's beautiful, and I'm bringing it with me to the birth center as an object to focus on. I've also picked out several psalms for my husband to read to me during contractions, to help me focus and relax. I just went through the bible and picked the psalms I liked, or that struck me as appropriate. I'm also going to asking him to say the Rosary with me--it's a long, repetitive, meditative prayer that I find very comforting. It also helps me connect with my spiritual side and with God. And as before, I'm going to try to take any discomfort or pain and offer it to God for His purposes.

So there you go. Kind of a hodge-podge, and nothing traditionally prescribed by my faith, but those are some things I plan on bringing into the birth with me.
I am also Catholic. We are birthing at home, and prayer is the focus. We will pray the Rosary, light candles, I also have a picture of the Blessed Mother for my focal point - the Mother of all mothers. I also will have my spiritual advisor with me to pray over me as I labor and she will bless the baby as soon as he is born, as he will be consecrated to the most Holy Blessed Mother.

I also will be starting a novena to the Blessed Mother 9 days before my due date. I have sort of mapped out different novenas that will come before that, in case I go early.
post #11 of 13
Another Catholic here. In addition to the things said, St. Gerard is the patron saint of mothers in childbirth. He gave a handkerchief to a girl who held it during a difficult labor, and all turned out well. The handkerchief was passed around town to all the women in labor. When I got pregnant, a friend gave me a handkerchief that had been touched to a scrap of the original (as best as they know).
post #12 of 13
Thread Starter 
Thank you everyone for sharing your faith and your plans - reading this thread has been just wonderful!

Bluemaydie - it is wonderful to hear of the support you will have.

JMJ - Thanks for sharing about St Gerard! I wasn't aware of that story.
post #13 of 13
Glad to be of help!

JMJ--what a great gift! I always forget about St. Gerard, because I know nothing about him. Maybe it's time for some googling....
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