One suggestion I have to find one that other MDC mamas like is to check your area in FYT for recommendations. That is partly how I found the midwives I am seeing for this pregnancy. (I already have a ped since I have older kids too.) Other than that, make up a list of questions about things that are important to you, and see what their response is. When I was pg with DS, the ped let me schedule an "interview" appointment (no charge) to see if he would be a good match. I would suggest you take some of those names and do just that. Some questions I would ask are:
~ (Depending on your own feelings on this of course) How do you feel about vaccinations...are you okay with delayed or selective vaxes?
~ What are your feelings on breastfeeding...how long? supplementation necessary? When do you suggest we introduce solids?
~ Do you have any after hours appointments?
~ What hospital(s) do you have privileges to? (in case there is a certain one you like or want to avoid)
~ What schedule of well baby/child visits do you suggest?
~ If my child is sick, can I generally get him/her in to see you that same day?
~ Do you have separate waiting areas for sick or well kids?
Talk to your friends too about things like how the staff is...helpful or rude?, how long do you wait once getting there for your appointment (not fun waiting over an hour with a toddler!!), does the ped tend to take a cautious approach to illness/medical conditions or want to aggressively treat them. (One example is my DS (7) has autism...the ped took a wait and see approach for a long time as DS is high-functioning, and then suggested we have him evaluated by the school system)
Good luck!
