Hey mommas and poppas,
I need some insight as I decide whether or not to vaccinate my son. He is six months old and, so far, has only received one shot - HIB - when he was 3 months old.
My husband and I decided to only do HIB, PCV and DTaP before he was born. We researched for almost a year, went to workshops, read books, and organized the schedule ourselves. Then, when my son turned 4 months old, we began going to a doctor who is way more anti-vax than any doctor I've ever known. At my son's 4-month visit, doc talked me OUT of PCV. And just yesterday, he pretty much talked me out of DTaP.
Here are his reasons:
1. My son is still exclusively breastfed.
2. He stays home with me. (I'm a SAHM.)
3. We don't have pets.
4. He is my first and only child.
5. He is never in any form of day care or nursery.
6. He doesn't have any regular caregivers other than my husband and me.
7. As of yet, I'm not a part of any play groups for him.
Doctor said his environment is so contained that it's incredibly unlikely that he would get any of these diseases. Basically, his thinking is that the risk of an adverse reaction to the vax is higher than the risk of catching any of those diseases.
I just know a few people who have not vaccinated for pertussis (whooping cough) and their children got it...and it was horrible. Like a 3-month ordeal...and kinda scary. Their circumstances were a little different than ours, but I'm just still concerned about unknowingly coming into contact with a friend or family member who spends a little time with my son and gets him sick with one of these illnesses that could have been prevented.
Any input? Any stories? Any advice? I don't like making decisions out of fear, but I gotta be honest: I'm afraid to vaccinate...and I'm afraid not to.
I need some insight as I decide whether or not to vaccinate my son. He is six months old and, so far, has only received one shot - HIB - when he was 3 months old.
My husband and I decided to only do HIB, PCV and DTaP before he was born. We researched for almost a year, went to workshops, read books, and organized the schedule ourselves. Then, when my son turned 4 months old, we began going to a doctor who is way more anti-vax than any doctor I've ever known. At my son's 4-month visit, doc talked me OUT of PCV. And just yesterday, he pretty much talked me out of DTaP.
Here are his reasons:
1. My son is still exclusively breastfed.
2. He stays home with me. (I'm a SAHM.)
3. We don't have pets.
4. He is my first and only child.
5. He is never in any form of day care or nursery.
6. He doesn't have any regular caregivers other than my husband and me.
7. As of yet, I'm not a part of any play groups for him.
Doctor said his environment is so contained that it's incredibly unlikely that he would get any of these diseases. Basically, his thinking is that the risk of an adverse reaction to the vax is higher than the risk of catching any of those diseases.
I just know a few people who have not vaccinated for pertussis (whooping cough) and their children got it...and it was horrible. Like a 3-month ordeal...and kinda scary. Their circumstances were a little different than ours, but I'm just still concerned about unknowingly coming into contact with a friend or family member who spends a little time with my son and gets him sick with one of these illnesses that could have been prevented.
Any input? Any stories? Any advice? I don't like making decisions out of fear, but I gotta be honest: I'm afraid to vaccinate...and I'm afraid not to.







. I took him everywhere, I did not isolate him, and he did not have any vaccines until 4 months and we stopped at 12 months. Even when I took him to the children's museum, where hacking children slobbered all over the exhibits, he did not become ill. I believe he and I had Pertussis when he was 2.5 (and coughed for two weeks) and I was 5 months pregnant, based on my symptoms (I could check off just about every one).
I regret having vaccinated my dd at all. We stopped after her 12 month shots. I won't vaccinate my next, if I have another child. You can't undo vaccine injuries



