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post #41 of 55
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Originally Posted by butterflyblue View Post
Butterfly Mommy - thanks for the "don't eat that" game, I used it yesterday to get my kids to drink their milk. Milk is so much more fun when Mommy doesn't want you to drink it.
We do this game A LOT. It works really well. Or I'll pretend to feed his food to the pretend troll that lives in our house. I'll say "troll, here's a bite of food for you. Come quick and eat it up before C changes his mind and eats it".
post #42 of 55
To get him in his car seat, we used to pretend we are fire fighters going to put out a fire. Now he's pretty good at getting in his seat.

We have races a lot. I'll say, "I'm going to get to the kitchen, FIRST", or "go pee", or whatever it is.

He loves construction vehicles, so we pretend to be cranes, dump trucks, ect. when cleaning up. I often say, "I need a crane to come pick up these cranes, is there a crane any where?"

When I need him to leave the bedroom because I am putting baby to sleep I ask him to play hide and go seek and tell him to go hide in his bedroom.

When I need to cut his finger nails, I talk the clippers and pretend they are hungry and they tell him what his nails taste like.

I used to play this dragon game to get him to go pee. We pretend that dragons live in bathrooms and we have to try to sneak into the bathroom and go pee without waking them up. I'll say, 'Oh, I think there's a dragon in the bathroom. Let's sneak in there and pee but we can't wake him up". But of course, we always wake them up. So I'll growl and say, "who's in my bathroom?" in a growly voice. He would talk back to the dragons and have a conversation. This was a huge hit. But now he always goes pee when I ask him to.

We make up songs a lot. Especially when we brush teeth. I will make up songs as I brush but they always involve telling him the foods he ate that day that I am brushing away.
post #43 of 55
variations on a couple games mentioned:

"whatever you do" i say "whatever you do..... dooooon't....." "get in the car" "eat that" etc. then i scold saying "hey! i thought i said dooooon't...." they laugh so hard. (they seem to understand the different tone to my voice too, which i was worried about. if i mean no they seem to understand but if i say "whatever you do" they giggle and do it)

"lazy/crazy" when picking up toys. first play lazy- yawning, flopping on ground, moving slow. then crazy- run around picking up things like crazy. like red light green light. yell "lazy" "crazy"

eating- sprinkles do wonders. amazing that two tiny sprinkles can get a whole plate eaten, food coloring, different containers- using giant bowls for tiny bit of food, eating things out of cups instead of plates or tiny egg cups that have to be refilled over and over, eating out of mixing bowls or jars etc. using chopsticks was a big hit for a while

loving these ideas!
post #44 of 55
asking them to change out of their grumpy pants. "uh oh. i think you have made a big mistake! those pants seem to be super grumpy today. think they woke up on the wrong side of the drawer. this can't be. this won't do. let's quick change them..... " listen to all the pants til you find one that is laughing and happy. "let's wear these today!"
post #45 of 55
I have been having a HORRIBLE time getting DD1 (3 years old) to go to bed and not wake up her sister (whos one). Ive learned that two things we use to do in Combat training for the Marines works well.
Ones called stargazing- Basically after PT if we had time left over they would have us lay on our back and look at the stars (ok, Combat training stunk but we had good instructors that realized that they needed to give us downtime when they could). With DD1 I tell her we are going to play stargazing but we have to close our eyes since we are inside and cant see the stars. Within two minutes shes out.
The other one is checking for holes in your eye lids. DD1 loves this one and thinks its so funny to think there might be holes in her eyelids so shes almost always willing to play it. Again, within two minutes shes out.

Who knew you could pick up some playful parenting tips from the Marines but I keep remembering back to some of the things I use to do with my Marines and I find things that DD would find fun/funny like low crawling around to pick up toys.
post #46 of 55
I really love, love, love these ideas! Thank you for such a GREAT topic. I am always trying to find new ways to get my little people to help *and* make it fun!
post #47 of 55
I love love love this thread!

On of my favorite Playful Parenting "games" is for brushing teeth. For a long time Max hated doing this (and still sometimes does) and wouldn't open his mouth. So, I will take the toothbrush and pretend it's a little person. The toothbrush walks up to his mouth and says (in a silly voice or accent), "Um, hello Maximus. I um, I was just here for a party and I think I left my purse inside your mouth. Can you let me in just for a second so I can find my purse?" Max will always open up at this point. Then when the toothbrush is in his mouth the toothbrush says, "Woohoo! I made it in! Party! Party! Party!" Sometimes we have to do it several times, with the toothbrush saying things like, "Hi again Max. I know I was just here, but this time i forgot my pet chihuahua. Can I come in really quickly and look for it?"

Works for us!
post #48 of 55
I think some of the playful stuff we do I may have read about here on MDC at some point.

For picking up toys, we have a big toy box andI tell DD that she has to pick up all the toys and hide them in the treasure chest or else the pirate will take them. DH lurks somewhere nearby and yells out the occasional "Arrrrgh!" or "Shiver me timbers!" in a pirate voice. He comes in when she's done, strutting around like a pirate and complains that he can't find the treasure.

Bathtime used to be a big fight around here, so I'd throw DD over my shoulder and pretend to be a giant who wants some "[DD's name] soup." I'd run the water and complain about being hungry, then "chop her up" by doing gentle karate chops all over her body, pretend to sprinkle her with salt, etc. This always led to a fit of giggles.

This one's a bit gross, but we were having big problems with DD witholding her poop. She'd say, "My bum hurts!" which really meant that she had the urge to poop, but she refused to go. We got the book, "Everyone Poops" which shows different animals and their poop (among other things). So now when she says that her bum hurts, we tell her we need to see her poop because we want to see if it's a great big elephant poop, or a two-humped camel poop, or a little mouse poop. It's working so far.
post #49 of 55
I found some good ideas in this thread but am always in need of more..so I'm bumping it up for revival.
post #50 of 55
I love these ideas and am taking notes!! I definitely need to be more creative and playful. One thing that I do with DS (3) that works well is make up a crazy story or just tell him about something that is going to happen, as I am putting on shoes/coat/clothes/pajamas or putting him on the toilet to pee. He just listens as I get it done. I only do this if I don't have time to wait for him to do it on his own as I think that is important also!
post #51 of 55
My sister does this fun game with her 4 yr old when she gives him vitamins. She takes his vitamins out of the bottle beforehand and then gives him the bottle to shake like crazy and then tosses the vitamin on the ground and says "Oh no! The vitamins are coming out of your ears!". He thinks it's the funniest thing in the world.

If my ds doesn't want to do something I ask his baby sister if she thinks he's big enough to do it and have her respond in a baby voice that she's not sure if he's big enough, maybe he could show her? Works everytime.

We can get our ds to pick up very happily if one of us wearing a puppet who's helping.

Great ideas on here! Let's keep them coming : )
post #52 of 55
It's chilly here but putting on a jacket before we go out (without the threats of 'if you don't put it on, we can't go outside') was an increasing struggle.

My son solved the problem one day by telling me his hands were scared to go into the dark sleeves.

Now we encourage them with shouts of "go to the light hands!!"...little does he know I'm getting Poltergeist movie shivers

He loves it!
post #53 of 55
This thread is so helpful! Thanks everyone!
post #54 of 55

scribbling furiously

awesome, fellow mamas.

i compiled all the ideas into an 8 page doc with subject headings, for my hubby, for me, and for my neighborhood moms group.
you mamas ROCK!
post #55 of 55
I haven't kept up with this thread, so maybe someone already mentioned this idea...but I've got something going on recently that is working really well with 3 yo ds...

When he whines or demands, I start moving but s-l-o-w-l-y, say "Whining makes me reeeeaaaalllyyy ssslllloooooooooowwwwww". He laughs and rephrases politely, and then I go super fast! to get him what he wants.
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