When did you tell your kids? - Page 2

[Caoimhe]

We've decided not to tell our kids until we're out of the first trimester... Either that or when I can no longer hide it from them, which I don't think will be long this time around.

My 8 year old took it really hard when we lost the baby in October. He's just now coming to terms with it actually... Not that we can be 100% sure we're safe after the first tri, but I only made it to 10 weeks before we found out we had a missed m/c and baby stopped growing at 7 weeks.

We haven't even told family yet. Like, not even our moms.... Not that I'm paranoid, but I just wouldn't want to hear all the "I told you to give it more time", if it wasn't meant to be...

[MaerynPearl]

We ended up telling kids and my family yesterday, will be telling his tomorrow. Im not even 6 weeks yet, so scared something will happen, but its best that they know...

We will also get the we told you to wait crap but oh well. We are adults, we did what WE wanted and what was right for US. They cant tell us what to do anymore.

Ended up also having to tell my dress maker for our wedding as she was talking about going to buy the pattern this weekend... so we have redesigned my dress (basically just moving the waist up and getting rid of the petticoat underneath lol)

[AmyKT]

I told our 26 month old DD at 10 weeks, but I don't think she really gets it. When I ask her about the baby, she points to her own belly.