I have only in the last 2 years learned to prepare and eat meat. It's very daunting, so I completely understand! 
I am on the opposite side of the spectrum, I cannot abide overdone meat. I chew gag and cannot swallow. This was a problem as a child and I've never been able to get over it. As a child and young adult I thought I just hated meat, so I avoided eating it. Now I know I hate overcooked meat!
I love my digital thermometer. It was inexpensive and it's so very user friendly.
As for blackening the meat, ask Dh if he likes that taste. Some people do. If he doesn't lower heat for longer will acheive his goal without the charcoal.
I agree that the joy of cooking books are very all encompasing and a wealth of technical info.

I am on the opposite side of the spectrum, I cannot abide overdone meat. I chew gag and cannot swallow. This was a problem as a child and I've never been able to get over it. As a child and young adult I thought I just hated meat, so I avoided eating it. Now I know I hate overcooked meat!

I love my digital thermometer. It was inexpensive and it's so very user friendly.
As for blackening the meat, ask Dh if he likes that taste. Some people do. If he doesn't lower heat for longer will acheive his goal without the charcoal.
I agree that the joy of cooking books are very all encompasing and a wealth of technical info.









