Not sure where you are exactly, but you can check the Trust Birth Initiative site to see if there is group that meets near you.
http://www.trustbirth.com/meetings.html I also know of the C.H.O.I.C.E.S. group. You can at least meet home birth women in your area through them.
http://www.indianabirthchoices.com/ I'm in the Kankakee, IL area and know a few other women and myself that have had unassisted births. Mine was planned, and the other women didn't have the midwife arrive in time. I hope someone else has better info for you. I just didn't want you to get no response from anyone. Good luck!