I'm posting here because I've never seen so many people who know so much about the intact penis in one place and I'm hoping I can get some good advice and some good links.
Here is my dilemma, DS is 2 years, 9 mos. and intact. In November he was diagnosed with balanitis when I took him to the ped for a red and swollen penis with yellowish discharge. He took a course of antibiotics and it cleared up easily. Now he is diagnosed with a UTI. I took him to a urologist and we have an appt. in a few weeks for a kidney u/s and VCUG to check for urinary reflux. The concern is that he's had two infections recently and there may be an underlying cause. The urologist has already mentioned that circ should be done if there is reflux. The concern is that he may be one of those kids that is genetically predisposed to getting these infections. With recurrent infections he could develop scar tissue that may prevent his foreskin from detatching properly.
I want to be armed with as much information as I can before going on with any of this so I can make the best decision for my son.
I don't want to circ him unless it really is in his best interest. When it comes to the circ issue my motto is "if it aint broke, don't fix it", but maybe it's broke?
Here is my dilemma, DS is 2 years, 9 mos. and intact. In November he was diagnosed with balanitis when I took him to the ped for a red and swollen penis with yellowish discharge. He took a course of antibiotics and it cleared up easily. Now he is diagnosed with a UTI. I took him to a urologist and we have an appt. in a few weeks for a kidney u/s and VCUG to check for urinary reflux. The concern is that he's had two infections recently and there may be an underlying cause. The urologist has already mentioned that circ should be done if there is reflux. The concern is that he may be one of those kids that is genetically predisposed to getting these infections. With recurrent infections he could develop scar tissue that may prevent his foreskin from detatching properly.
I want to be armed with as much information as I can before going on with any of this so I can make the best decision for my son.
I don't want to circ him unless it really is in his best interest. When it comes to the circ issue my motto is "if it aint broke, don't fix it", but maybe it's broke?









