Has anyone here had a struggle with homeschooling that had to do with vision problems ?
Last June, I took our DS1 for his state-required "kindergarten" eye exam. I was not expecting there to be any problems because he had always read the eye chart well at his checkups. It turned out he was worse than 20/400 in his right eye. The doctor had never had him cover one eye while reading the chart.
Since then he has gotten glasses, and we have been patching his good eye 4 hours a day to make the lazy one work.
I do most of his school work without the patch, because I don't want to overwork him. When he is patching I just encourage doing stuff for fun. I know it is very hard for him when his good eye is patched. But I had thought that when the patch wasn't on, he didn't have any problems, because that is what the original optometrist said.
His academic progress has been really grueling, just painfully slow. I am trying to keep him on grade level (first grade) with reading, writing, and math. He is best at math and seems to enjoy it. Reading and writing are just so slow, so hard...it has been like climbing a mountain with our fingernails. The effort leaves both of us exhausted.
I admit I have had thoughts that he is just not trying, or that he is not willing to learn from me. I have thought of trying Sylvan or another type of tutoring center. Anything to get him reading. He is learning spelling words well, but does not seem to be making progress at reading sentences.
Late last year we decided that once the new insurance year started (we didn't have vision coverage for our kids last year) we would start his eye care fresh with a pediatric optometrist instead of taking him back to mine after the recommended six month wait (he just had a checkup in October but we didn't want to wait). This morning he had an appointment with a pediatric optometrist at a practice that incorporates vision therapy. The pedi opt uncovered so much more than the regular optometrist....that his eyes only work together somewhat, not "well" as we had been told before; and that the center of the field of vision in his right eye is much fuzzier than the edges, and probably always will be, and he may struggle with losing his place in a sentence unless he has enlarged print.
I was given a checklist of symptoms that go along with issues that vision therapy may help. I sat down with the checklist and he has about 1/3 of the symptoms ! I feel bad now for getting so frustrated with his lack of progress in reading and writing, realizing now that his reluctance to read at all and avoiding it and tiring of it quickly are happening because his eyes are not cooperating with him. We are starting vision therapy ASAP whether our insurance waiver comes through or not. I am really hopeful that it will help him, and that reading will become easier for him. I love to read and can only imagine how frustrating it would be if my eyes wouldn't behave.
For now I will stick with him reading only very large print for short periods of time. I will reduce the amount I am asking him to read and use our scanner/printer to increase the print size of his work. Today I blew his math problems up to a huge size and only gave him two and he was much happier. I will have to set my worries about grade level reading aside while we work on his vision. I will go for quality, not quantity, and concentrate on making it as easy for him as possible, and setting him up to feel successful.
If anyone has passed over a similar hurdle with something that was an obstacle to your child's academic progress, I would love to hear some stories of overcoming...
Thanks !
Last June, I took our DS1 for his state-required "kindergarten" eye exam. I was not expecting there to be any problems because he had always read the eye chart well at his checkups. It turned out he was worse than 20/400 in his right eye. The doctor had never had him cover one eye while reading the chart.
Since then he has gotten glasses, and we have been patching his good eye 4 hours a day to make the lazy one work.
I do most of his school work without the patch, because I don't want to overwork him. When he is patching I just encourage doing stuff for fun. I know it is very hard for him when his good eye is patched. But I had thought that when the patch wasn't on, he didn't have any problems, because that is what the original optometrist said.
His academic progress has been really grueling, just painfully slow. I am trying to keep him on grade level (first grade) with reading, writing, and math. He is best at math and seems to enjoy it. Reading and writing are just so slow, so hard...it has been like climbing a mountain with our fingernails. The effort leaves both of us exhausted.
I admit I have had thoughts that he is just not trying, or that he is not willing to learn from me. I have thought of trying Sylvan or another type of tutoring center. Anything to get him reading. He is learning spelling words well, but does not seem to be making progress at reading sentences.
Late last year we decided that once the new insurance year started (we didn't have vision coverage for our kids last year) we would start his eye care fresh with a pediatric optometrist instead of taking him back to mine after the recommended six month wait (he just had a checkup in October but we didn't want to wait). This morning he had an appointment with a pediatric optometrist at a practice that incorporates vision therapy. The pedi opt uncovered so much more than the regular optometrist....that his eyes only work together somewhat, not "well" as we had been told before; and that the center of the field of vision in his right eye is much fuzzier than the edges, and probably always will be, and he may struggle with losing his place in a sentence unless he has enlarged print.
I was given a checklist of symptoms that go along with issues that vision therapy may help. I sat down with the checklist and he has about 1/3 of the symptoms ! I feel bad now for getting so frustrated with his lack of progress in reading and writing, realizing now that his reluctance to read at all and avoiding it and tiring of it quickly are happening because his eyes are not cooperating with him. We are starting vision therapy ASAP whether our insurance waiver comes through or not. I am really hopeful that it will help him, and that reading will become easier for him. I love to read and can only imagine how frustrating it would be if my eyes wouldn't behave.
For now I will stick with him reading only very large print for short periods of time. I will reduce the amount I am asking him to read and use our scanner/printer to increase the print size of his work. Today I blew his math problems up to a huge size and only gave him two and he was much happier. I will have to set my worries about grade level reading aside while we work on his vision. I will go for quality, not quantity, and concentrate on making it as easy for him as possible, and setting him up to feel successful.
If anyone has passed over a similar hurdle with something that was an obstacle to your child's academic progress, I would love to hear some stories of overcoming...
Thanks !








