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post #1 of 7
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So the background:

Things are a bit crazy here, but when aren't they for any of us? I have a 1st grader, am a PhD student working from a distance, taking online courses towards teacher certification (since I'm more likely to have a job at the high school than a college/university), substitute teaching part-time (though this is highly flexible), and expecting my second child any day now (due February 3rd, contractions on and off for a week now). At this moment, I am on maternity leave from my doctoral work and not doing any substitute teaching. I am enrolled in one 3-credit course for the certification program; it begins on Monday. I felt I was being responsible and corresponded with my adviser when this semester's offerings were published. I told him I expected to be able to do all the work, although there was a chance that I would need minor accommodations in the first week or two. He said that shouldn't be a problem.

When an email link was finally available for this semester's course, I sent a similar email to her. Her initial response was that it's no problem. But then I received an email today telling me that she had discussed it with her chair and they think I should drop the course. They don't generally allow any late work, and they're worried I won't be able to put in the expected 10 hours a week. There's also a 10-hour observation component (over the course of the 16-week semester, with 5 hours expected before midterm). There was also a little bit about how maybe I didn't realize that graduate-level work would be expected of us, despite the 200-level course designation.

I have no concerns about the level of work expected. I'm not even that worried about the course content (I have 5 years of experience teaching at the secondary level and several at the university level already, so I've already been exposed to a lot of the ideas we'll examine in this course). And as long as I can do the observations at my local high school--and I have the connections via substitute teaching to get them to agree--I don't see how it would be too much of a drain. My partner and I were already talking about me picking up some sub work in a few weeks; she works from home and her mother would love to come watch the baby, so 2-3 hours away on a handful of days would be well within the range of possibility.

If I understand the calendar right, I would have until February 12th to drop, though I'll need to check about financial penalties. I'm thinking that I should just get started with the coursework and make my decision then. For what it's worth, the instructor sent me the syllabus and while it doesn't have tons of detail about the specific assignments, I could easily start reading for the class today.
post #2 of 7
It sounds like it would be fine, as long as you can get and stay organized (barring major complications with the birth, of course). If you could get detailed information on what will due the first few weeks and just go ahead with that as hard and fast as you can until the baby arrives, you'll buy yourself some extra breathing room. If you have a partner/other support person available for the first few weeks, that's even better.

I was taking 10 undergrad credits (6 online, 4 face-to-bace) while I was pregnant with my first and gave birth in the middle of the semester with no problem and no late assignments (okay, I one quiz I had to make up for my face-to-face class because I was in labor while they took it).
post #3 of 7
As a professor and a mother, I would worry that you might be overconfident about your ability to get things done in the weeks after the birth. Would it be better to take this class at another time?

However, if you are confident that you can meet the requirements of the course, and you need to take this course now, I would send a note back to the teacher addressing the concerns. So, outline the plan for doing observing (I have contacts at the high school through subbing, I am planning on observing before the birth, etc. etc.), that you have child care lined up to allow you to do that (and to do the coursework), and that you're confident you can put in the 10 hours.
post #4 of 7
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I was able to check, and I would be able to drop the course without financial or academic penalty through February 12th, so I figure I might as well start the course and see how it goes. I'm pretty confident that the hardest time to keep up will be at the time of delivery--and that's mostly dependent on exact timing. According to the syllabus I got, it looks like the worst harm I would do to myself if I didn't do *any* of the work for the first couple weeks would be 2-3% of the semester grade.

With my first kid, I was pretty much on my own during the day after a week or so and still managed to do some work (even though I was on maternity leave, I had to finish up some report card administrivia from the previous quarter about 2 weeks postpartum) and was wishing I'd had more. I know it'll be different for a whole host of reasons, but this time we've got family nearby.

For the first two courses in this program, I definitely didn't put in a full 10 hours per week and still earned very high As, so I just can't imagine this class being that much different.
post #5 of 7
I think your plan sounds very reaonsable. I'd reply to the email with some quick and clear answers to the concerns and as long as all is well with you and the new baby, definitely stay in the corse.
post #6 of 7
Thread Starter 
I sent my instructor an email outlining my plans for handling the semester. She wrote back that I sounded organized and capable. I'm wondering if most of this came from the department chair and/or if this was supposed to be the official line.

I've been able to get started on the readings--other than what is online and won't be available until Monday--and definitely feel that the content is well within my grasp.
post #7 of 7
It may well be the dept chair + a little bit of CYA. They want to make sure that if there are problems, you can't blame them.

I had a student e-mail me and her other professors last quarter because she was going to be bringing her newborn son to class. One of the other professors, who clearly didn't have much experience with newborns, was very worried that having a newborn there was going to interfere with her ability to contribute to class discussions. he was quite relieved when I informed him that since newborns eat and sleep, really, I couldn't see how having to hold an infant would prevent her from being able to discuss things.
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