She is very aggressive, yells at her, and is very derogatory (sp?) she isn't saying anything in particular but she calls her names in her own made up language. They do play peacefully for a while but most of the time DD1 is very angry w/ DD2 about EVERYTHING and I don't know what to do about it. They are wonderful with DD3, but I am worried DD2 will start copying this behavior. I've explained it isn't nice to yell, we need to be nice and use soft voices, no one likes to be yelled at. And that it hurts DD2 when you push, pinch, bite, etc "It's not nice to get hurt, is it? Do you want her to hurt?" most of the time the answer is no but lately it's been yes 
I don't know what to do...... How do I help her? I'm at my wits end. Or is this normal and I need to just deal with it till we are through this phase?
I don't know what to do...... How do I help her? I'm at my wits end. Or is this normal and I need to just deal with it till we are through this phase?
