Usually DH has the car at work, so when DD and I go out I usually wear her in a carrier and walk or take the bus. A diaper bag gets in the way too much when I'm already wearing the baby, so I've starting using one of those cheap cloth purse/backpacks that has two little straps that work as a drawstring for the top of the bag. I love it! It's lightweight and flexible, and doesn't get in the way of the carrier because I can just throw it on my back. If we go out, I'm usually also using this bag as a shopping bag/library book carrier, so I need to have lots of extra space in it. I don't tend to carry much for DD, poor kid! I used to carry a burp cloth, for example - now I just blot with a sleeve and hope for the best.
My stuff:
- wallet, cell phone, house key, bus pass. (I stopped trying to bring stuff along to keep myself presentable or clean a long time ago!)
- Not in the diaper bag, but... I'm also almost always carrying a travel mug with coffee. I'm working on breaking the habit, it's a PITA to carry it everywhere but I just struggle to go without my coffee for any length of time... !
DD's stuff:
- spare pacifier with a cover to keep it clean
- 1-2 pocket diapers (depending on length of outing)
- Ziplock baggie with a couple of cloth wipes
- 1 "emergency" 'sposie
- a plastic grocery bag to use as a wet bag
- spare socks and a sleeper for "emergency" clothes
- flannel receiving blanket to use as a changing pad
If we're going out to eat, I also bring:
- baby food jar full of Cheerios and/or bits of fruit or veggies
- a couple of small toys
- Tiny Diner portable placemat (I love this thing!)
My stuff:
- wallet, cell phone, house key, bus pass. (I stopped trying to bring stuff along to keep myself presentable or clean a long time ago!)
- Not in the diaper bag, but... I'm also almost always carrying a travel mug with coffee. I'm working on breaking the habit, it's a PITA to carry it everywhere but I just struggle to go without my coffee for any length of time... !
DD's stuff:
- spare pacifier with a cover to keep it clean
- 1-2 pocket diapers (depending on length of outing)
- Ziplock baggie with a couple of cloth wipes
- 1 "emergency" 'sposie
- a plastic grocery bag to use as a wet bag
- spare socks and a sleeper for "emergency" clothes
- flannel receiving blanket to use as a changing pad
If we're going out to eat, I also bring:
- baby food jar full of Cheerios and/or bits of fruit or veggies
- a couple of small toys
- Tiny Diner portable placemat (I love this thing!)








A spare baby outfit, extra baby socks, and 3 or 4 now-too-small prefolds for more spit-up catches/clean-ups.

We don't generally use all the diapers (and rarely need the backup outfit) but I'd rather have them on hand then be caught without.