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The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly

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I give myself $350 a month to spend on household stuff. This is our grocery budget, yes, but other stuff too. I play a game with myself to see how far under the $350 I can keep it.

Once in a while, like this month, I skip my giant monthly stock up grocery trip and live off the stockpile (except for dairy and produce, obviously) when the pantry goes from "full" to "stuffed".

So... here's the cost break down, with only one week left in January:

The Good: (Total $173)

$108 on edible groceries

That's $4.50 a day, for two adults, one toddler, and one infant. Pretty good.

(However, DH bought hot dogs and buns and donuts, and I bought cereal and pop- these junky items accounted for $22 in stuff we didn't need, roughly 1/5 of our total edible grocery spending.

Wow. Junk food is expensive.

If we had nixed the junk, we only would have spent $86 so far this month, or $3.58/day.)

I've also spent $12 on durable goods- cloth napkins, an apron for myself, books and magazines, a man jewelry box for DH, several small books and toys for the kiddos, and two pairs of shoes for DD. (Gotta love Vinnie's!)

I also bought DH and I new stainless steel water bottles from Walgreen's, but I had a $10 gift card to do that, so that's $0.

Again, nothing super frivolous. Pretty good.

I also spent $7 on postage, to send prints to my annoying, emailess relatives , $21 on gas for my van (had already burned thru the gas money this month, so it came out of household), and $25 on DD's dance class tuition.

The Bad: ($61)

$41 on non-food consumables.

Bah! I cannot seem to get this budget category down to less than 1/3 of what I spend on groceries. To be fair, DH was very sick this month, so $11 of that $41 went to prescriptions, but geez... I make toothpaste, sunblock, laundry stuff, cleaning stuff, SIL keeps us in soap, I use reusable containers for leftovers... why do I spend so much on stuff that gets thrown away?! Drives me nuts.

$20 a year of magicJack service. Forgot about this bill so we didn't have a phone and spent a whole day trying to figure out why, . Didn't have it left in our allotted utility money, so it came out of household.

The Ugly: ($33)

I spent $33 this month of fast food! Eek! Three different drive thru visits. And I have the pimple on my chin to prove it. One visit was excusable- I took the kids to the evil McPlayland when DH was sick so he could get some rest. But the other two were just poor planning.

So my total is $267. That leaves me $93 to get through this week (which hopefully I won't spend anything, as we have plenty of food in the house and the van is full). I'm under budget. Good.

But... if we had planned better for gas and utilities, I'd have $41 more left in household. If we'd bypassed the junk food, we'd have $22. And if we'd cruised passed the evil drive thru, we'd have $33 more. That's $96 total, or over 25% of total household spending.

So not too bad, but I can certainly do better.
post #2 of 7
I'm kind of afraid of what my "bad" and "ugly" would look like if I did this. Especially with the news of my bonus. I spent $100 on tickets to take dd to the ballet next month, $189 (last night) on my turning 4-0 party train trip to Miami Beach scheduled for October (great fare, though!) and $400 on a trip for dh and dd to go visit dh's last remaining living relative on his father's side (who, until about 3 weeks ago, he did not know was alive). Pretty good things to spend money on if you're going to splurge, though, I think.

And I managed not to do any major grocery shopping this weekend and decided that we'll eat from the freezer and pantry. And I got out of Target by only buying 1 item I hadn't intended to (winter themed pj's which will be a gift for my SIL next Christmas for only $4.98!!!). But then bombed in Jo-Ann's.

You've inspired me to do a review like yours. Thanks!
post #3 of 7
I love the idea of excesses in other categories taking a bite out of the grocery/household budget. It just seems FAIR somehow.

I don't think it can really work unless you do things cash-based like Leta does, though... maybe if you are an obsessive daily Quicken or Mint checker. Like I am.
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It's amazing that with such a low grocery/household budget ($380) - there *still* is that much room for savings (i.e., cut out junk food, fast food, buying aprons or whatever)

You are doing great. It just goes to show that one really can live on very little if you only buy good food and cook from scratch. (which I know you guys do, in style, 90% of the time!)
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Originally Posted by Smithie View Post
I love the idea of excesses in other categories taking a bite out of the grocery/household budget. It just seems FAIR somehow.

I don't think it can really work unless you do things cash-based like Leta does, though... maybe if you are an obsessive daily Quicken or Mint checker. Like I am.
Yeah, debit card transactions are not as easy to follow as an envelope system. I just don't think I'll ever get there, though. Although, when I keep up with my monthly budget in Excel, it has worked. I can clearly see where I'm under or over spending in each category and the over-all difference.
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We don't do envelopes. We tried, but we failed.

We pay bills twice a month (on payday). DH gets paid by direct deposit, and we have online bill pay. $200 automatically goes into eTrade savings (this is escrow- homeowner's, car insurance and tags, property taxes, and pellets for heat come out of this, with a couple grand left over at the end of the year for emergencies), and the rest into checking.

Out of every paycheck, $625 is spoken for. We budget (monthly) $350 for the mortgage, $350 for utilities, $200 for gas, and $350 for household (which includes groceries).

Right now, about 80% of anything left over is going toward our van payment. I want that sucker paid off THIS YEAR, dang it!

We pay our bills, including our somewhat variable van payment (because we are paying more than the minimum), and then we leave $275 in checking (two weeks worth of household and gas expenses).

If there is anything left over beyond that $275, I wish I could say that we put it into savings, , but the reality is that we have a long list of stuff that we have earmarked for when we have "extra" money. Everything from my makeup to DH's shoes to glasses to new tires comes out of "extra" money. Basically, anything that costs more than loose change at the thrift store. Our rule is that when we need something, it goes on the list. The list is a Google Doc. (Things that are more "wants" than "needs" get an asterisk.) This list REALLY controls our shopping, causes us to think purchases through, and generally ensures that we aren't too impulsive in general.

Anyway, I know that even in the spendiest months, I can run our household on $350 a month. Which means we have some wiggle room built into our budget.

We stop at the bank quite a bit, to take out cash for household stuff and gas, but we intentionally chose a credit union close to home with long hours. We only use the debit card for online purchases. We write whatever we spend that day on the calendar, and we tot up our spending at the end of the month.

We've tried various budgeting methods, and this is the one that works the best for us.
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Originally Posted by Leta View Post
Anyway, I know that even in the spendiest months, I can run our household on $350 a month. Which means we have some wiggle room built into our budget.

We stop at the bank quite a bit, to take out cash for household stuff and gas, but we intentionally chose a credit union close to home with long hours. We only use the debit card for online purchases. We write whatever we spend that day on the calendar, and we tot up our spending at the end of the month.

We've tried various budgeting methods, and this is the one that works the best for us.
That is fantastic that you know your minimum monthly household spend! I look forward to getting to the point where I know what I'm spending on things like toilet paper and paper towels (or better yet, converting totally to cloth), so that I can have a better handle on household items outside of food.

I've tried writing everything down on the calendar . . . and ended up not keeping it up. The good thing is that what I was recording was spend on lunch (I WOH) and transit fare. I've drastically reduced my lunch purchases - and writing it down helped me get better there. I hated seeing that I'd spent anything on lunch or breakfast outside of the home.

It's funny - I work for a bank and there is a branch in the lobby of my building, yet, I'd much rather use the debit card.

I need to get back to the Excel budget. Totalling my receipts (which I'm good about putting in a single place) each month, and sometimes during the month, was a very good practice for me. I just wish I could be more disciplined in maintaining.
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