We are struggling to figure out how to manage our 2yo cat's behavior. Right now, Rose jumps up on our counters, the table, when we leave the table, when we are still there, when I'm close to the kitchen but not there she will just jump up and try to eat whatever may be up there. Her main goal appears to scavenge crumbs or yogurt or milk left in bowls.
Rose did this after we adopted her from the shelter as a kitten, but stopped pretty quickly (only jumping on tables once we were out of the house or asleep). Now, she'll do it whenever she feels the urge, unfortunately.
Her behavior changed into this after we had to leave home for 9 days for my father's funeral out of state. During that time we found someone to come over and care for her, but could only come by once a day. We feed her twice a day usually; she eats a raw food. Our theory is that she is reacting to the significant change in routine and the uncertainty of our being gone so long.
Also, we discovered we were feeding her a lot more than the recommended amount on the package and slowly decreased that once we returned from our trip (over 6 weeks ago), and adjusted her food accordingly.
Now, to seriously complicate matters, we got a puppy a week before our trip. The puppy came with us, but the cat was not happy with the puppy before we left. It happens that this dog chases the cat when she runs - which she does when we chase her off the table or counters. It was barely an issue before we left for the trip. We are training the puppy to not chase the cat but she hasn't stopped yet. She chases the cat when we spray her with water (which we've stopped), and if we rush over to remove the cat from the off-limits surface. So I try to be calm and get the family not to yell to get the cat off of things, in order to keep the dog calmer and less likely to chase the cat when she's naughty, but it's not working. I think the dog is trying to help us in her way, actually. Sigh.
So, poor kitty missed us, had to deal with a puppy, her feeding was changed, and then we get back and expect her to be normal! But, we really can't have her eating bits of food because she gets diarrhea when she eats dairy or grains... which, of course, we eat every day.
And I don't know if it matters, but Rose is an indoor/outdoor cat. She has safe places from the dog, i.e. places the dog can't enter, upstairs and in the bedroom.
ANY suggestions are more than welcome. Thank you so much!
Rose did this after we adopted her from the shelter as a kitten, but stopped pretty quickly (only jumping on tables once we were out of the house or asleep). Now, she'll do it whenever she feels the urge, unfortunately.
Her behavior changed into this after we had to leave home for 9 days for my father's funeral out of state. During that time we found someone to come over and care for her, but could only come by once a day. We feed her twice a day usually; she eats a raw food. Our theory is that she is reacting to the significant change in routine and the uncertainty of our being gone so long.
Also, we discovered we were feeding her a lot more than the recommended amount on the package and slowly decreased that once we returned from our trip (over 6 weeks ago), and adjusted her food accordingly.
Now, to seriously complicate matters, we got a puppy a week before our trip. The puppy came with us, but the cat was not happy with the puppy before we left. It happens that this dog chases the cat when she runs - which she does when we chase her off the table or counters. It was barely an issue before we left for the trip. We are training the puppy to not chase the cat but she hasn't stopped yet. She chases the cat when we spray her with water (which we've stopped), and if we rush over to remove the cat from the off-limits surface. So I try to be calm and get the family not to yell to get the cat off of things, in order to keep the dog calmer and less likely to chase the cat when she's naughty, but it's not working. I think the dog is trying to help us in her way, actually. Sigh.
So, poor kitty missed us, had to deal with a puppy, her feeding was changed, and then we get back and expect her to be normal! But, we really can't have her eating bits of food because she gets diarrhea when she eats dairy or grains... which, of course, we eat every day.
And I don't know if it matters, but Rose is an indoor/outdoor cat. She has safe places from the dog, i.e. places the dog can't enter, upstairs and in the bedroom.
ANY suggestions are more than welcome. Thank you so much!








