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3 month old DS won't take left breast

post #1 of 6
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Ok so when I position him to nurse on the left side he knows and starts fussing. So weird! So then I offer the right side and no problems! The only way he will take the left boob is if he's really sleepy after taking the right one or if I hold him so he can take it like the right one (football hold I believe, not sure). He doesn't do that all the time though... He goes thru 3-4 days where he won't take it... Then he's fine for like a week or two! I'm not really worried because he's not having any weight gain issues (far from it actually ) or any other issues. He's a really happy talkative baby! I just wanted some thoughts on why he does that! Thanks
post #2 of 6
I have no idea why, but my dd is the exact same way. She refuses to nurse if I turn her towards the right, and will only nurse on that side if I hold her like she's going to nurse on the left then twist and contort my body to reach my right breast over to her. Not so convenient in public, I hope she outgrows this phase soon, lol!!
post #3 of 6
I would take baby to a chiropractor- it might be hurting his neck to turn his head that way- I especially think that since you say he will sometimes nurse in a football hold. Babies can get their neck out of place from birth stress, and it can "act up" like any adult type injury.
post #4 of 6
Well, DD1 did the same thing and we ended up nursing one-sided.

Some of my thoughts were alignment or something else physical with her (we did take her to a chiropractor but didn't see any improvement), or different taste/nipple shape/letdown, i.e. something physical with me.

After paying close attention for a few days, I did figure out that the side she was favoring had a slower/less forceful letdown. So possibly she was avoiding the other side for a while after getting "overwhelmed" with milk from it. Another problem (I think) was that after she refused to nurse on it, the taste of the milk changed (I have read that "weaning milk" tastes saltier than it does at other times, yes I did taste it and it was indeed saltier than the other side) and she didn't like it as much as the sweeter milk she got from the other side. I guess I could have avoided that issue by pumping the one side when she was refusing it though.

Some suggestions that worked for a while (she did ultimately start refusing one side entirely, and we did fine one-sided, but I think these "tricks" kept her nursing on it longer). I tried nursing on the favored side in the football hold. She had no problem with this, which made me think it was something physical with me instead of her, since it meant lying on the same side/turning her head the same way as when she refused the other breast. Once she got used to lying on that side again she would nurse on the other breast more often (or it would sometimes work to end a one-breast strike). I also nursed her upright in a wrap. Sometimes that worked to get her to take the other breast. Both of those made NIP easier too (easier than trying to latch a screaming baby onto the breast she hates because it's so engorged it's painful, while everybody in the food court stares ).
post #5 of 6
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We are taking him to the chiropractor on Wednesday, so we'll see how that goes! He did take the left breast since I posted but only after nursing on the right side and not all the time. Maybe it could be the taste or the letdown too. We'll see after Wednesday! Thanks for the suggestions...
post #6 of 6
My son is the same only he prefers the left breast. It is my bigger boob by far so I wonder if it has more milk and that is why he likes it more. I usually just lay him to the left and "slide" him down to the right boob, and that seems to trick him well enough to take it. I would say at about that same 3 month age was when I noticed he had a preference.
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