My ds is 19 months and intact. We are on vacation of course, and this evening noticed his penis is red, swollen and painful. We were in the car for about three hours earlier today and he kept grabbing at his crotch and was very cranky but all he got was his buckle so I thought he just wanted out of the car seat. Now I realize he was hurting. 
His testicles are normal, the redness is most red on the tip but goes up further as well.
It seems to me it's infected, though no fever. Motrin helped him considerably. I really do not want to take him to an urgent care as surely they would want to retract.
I have some prescription antibiotic cream I thought I could rub on there in hopes it might make it's way up there though with him not being retractable I doubt it would do much good.
What should I do?
Sarah
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His testicles are normal, the redness is most red on the tip but goes up further as well.
It seems to me it's infected, though no fever. Motrin helped him considerably. I really do not want to take him to an urgent care as surely they would want to retract.
I have some prescription antibiotic cream I thought I could rub on there in hopes it might make it's way up there though with him not being retractable I doubt it would do much good.
What should I do?
Sarah
If you don't mind emailing responses to Taylor.sp at gmail.com that would help as I am on my phone browser which is not easy to use.







so i won't be able to email this. sorry.