I am not pregnant yet, but during my last labor, I had what seemed like a lot of cervical checks (probably just the minimum) and was attached to the monitor every hour and a half. For me, both of these things were painful and miserable as I had to position myself and lift my hips etc.
I'm just wondering....why exactly do I need to be checked? Obviously there's the curiosity of how dilated I am, but if I can stand to not know, is there a reason I must be checked? Anyone have experience rejecting this in a hospital and what sort of issues did you run into?
Also, I'd love to hear others' stories about refusing or significantly limiting the monitoring in a standard hospital (which is where I will labor next time too). I requested minimal checks in my birth plan but I don't know what normal is.
I'm just wondering....why exactly do I need to be checked? Obviously there's the curiosity of how dilated I am, but if I can stand to not know, is there a reason I must be checked? Anyone have experience rejecting this in a hospital and what sort of issues did you run into?
Also, I'd love to hear others' stories about refusing or significantly limiting the monitoring in a standard hospital (which is where I will labor next time too). I requested minimal checks in my birth plan but I don't know what normal is.







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And this is a hospital that is continually ranked as one of the best in the nation by US News & World Report! Just goes to show you - the best hospital (place for sick people!) is NOT the best place for birthing mamas! I switched to a smaller hospital outside the city that is much more mama & baby friendly.



baby could die during the torturous, brutal, dangerous ride that is labor, then 