I read "The Divorce Remedy," when I was still thinking I wanted to save my marriage. At the time I thought it was great. In the book she says it's never too late, and it gave me hope that I was going to be able to get my H to come around and recommit to the family. I now really regret it. And I blame that book and the advice in it for persuading me to stay and put up with an increasingly miserable situation. Obviously it was my decision, but my H was intent on hurting and humiliating me and the longer I stayed thinking I could avoid a divorce the more he was able to take advantage of me. I finally woke up. But I am ashamed of those last few months and what I allowed my children to witness.