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2/1/10 at 2:41pm
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Originally Posted by jillmamma View Post
Is she the type to just SUGGEST weird stuff like this or to actually DO it behind your back? Because if she respects what you say and would follow your instructions (even if she does not agree), I would be okay with her watching the baby for short times, but if she would give stuff behind your back, no way! That is NUTSO! My MIL sometimes has some different ideas from me, but at least I know she would not do something like that behind my back so I am cool with her watching the kiddos, plus she lives far away so it does not happen much anyway.
I don't know... I really don't know. I have a feeling *something* would not be done as per my instructions if my instructions didn't work... I really think I'd come back to find supplementation had been done, or that something else I consider totally wacky would have been done. Crying it out or something. I dunno, my mama instinct is telling me that times have changed since my MIL (Who I really do respect and think the world of) had babies! I just wonder if those things were the tip of the iceberg, you know?

Anyway right now I can't imagine anyone but ME or DP watching the baby XXX
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