Okay. I had a long rant about this that got moved to the "finances" category but I wanted to try a different approach/ shorter post here again. The short version of my story is that the midwife I used to be with (I've been with three practices throughout this pregnancy for insurance/ distance reasons) sent me a bill for some STD tests I didn't need or approve (or want). They're demanding payment for $205 for these tests - although I had already had the same tests done at a different practice two weeks before. I brought all of my bloodwork and information from the first doctor's office to the subsequent midwife's, and said "here are the tests I've had and don't need to rerun." So I thought the bill was just a mistake on their end -especially since they never took any blood or did a pelvic exam, since they weren't necessary - but after months of trying to get straight answers, they are now telling me that they ran these tests from my urine sample - the one I thought was just for the standard ever-visit protein testing - and I have to pay for tests that I did not require, need, want, or approve.
Besides the money (which is not small potatoes - we are really struggling right now), it infuriates me that they can just say "well, this is our standard of care, we run these tests no matter what." I brought the necessary documents and was really clear with the midwife that I didn't want to do any testing or procedures without full consent or approval first. Or at least I thought I was! I feel kind of violated that they would even run these tests without telling me... not that I'm worried about the results, but it was never clear to me what they were doing. I had no idea these tests were even run until 2 months ago (and they were run in August!). I certainly never got any kind of lab results paperwork in response - and I didn't need it, because I had just had totally clear tests for EVERYTHING like 2 weeks before!
Not to mention I've been with the same man for 10+ years, grr....
So, my question is - has anyone had luck with dealing with a provider/ medical office that just treats you like a number and not a human? I am no longer with this midwife, so it's kind of moot except for the bill for $205 that I refuse to pay. But trying to clarify to the office and their billing agency, I just end up going in circles - and getting told again and again that it's their "standard of care". I am disgusted that the standard of care is to run tests without permission or necessity, but I imagine that legally I signed something at my first visit saying that I approved their standard of care or whatever...
I'm so angry and at a loss for a next step... many phone calls and a letter haven't done anything, and I'm trying to think of a new approach.
Besides the money (which is not small potatoes - we are really struggling right now), it infuriates me that they can just say "well, this is our standard of care, we run these tests no matter what." I brought the necessary documents and was really clear with the midwife that I didn't want to do any testing or procedures without full consent or approval first. Or at least I thought I was! I feel kind of violated that they would even run these tests without telling me... not that I'm worried about the results, but it was never clear to me what they were doing. I had no idea these tests were even run until 2 months ago (and they were run in August!). I certainly never got any kind of lab results paperwork in response - and I didn't need it, because I had just had totally clear tests for EVERYTHING like 2 weeks before!
Not to mention I've been with the same man for 10+ years, grr....So, my question is - has anyone had luck with dealing with a provider/ medical office that just treats you like a number and not a human? I am no longer with this midwife, so it's kind of moot except for the bill for $205 that I refuse to pay. But trying to clarify to the office and their billing agency, I just end up going in circles - and getting told again and again that it's their "standard of care". I am disgusted that the standard of care is to run tests without permission or necessity, but I imagine that legally I signed something at my first visit saying that I approved their standard of care or whatever...
I'm so angry and at a loss for a next step... many phone calls and a letter haven't done anything, and I'm trying to think of a new approach.











