Torn between DS and DH

[csfaulkn]

I BF my DS who is 17mos. DS only goes to sleep for me only cries for everyone else. He wakes every two hrs (I think to potty - we EC). I want Ds to sleep as much and as long as possible so I sleep with him. Not sure it makes difference to him but I feel not quite as much exhaustion. But not good for my DH who sleeps alone. Our bed was not comfortable with all of us and DS doesn't like attached crib. Any suggestions?

[LionessMom]

i mostly keep the crib attached so that DD2 wont fall off the bed. it ends up being me cuddled with DD2 on that side then DH cuddled up behind me. we have a queen though. i have been known to scoot over into the crib and sleep cuddling DD2. especially if DH has been stretching in his sleep. how big is your bed?