why is DD so clingy these days?

[snadaska]

I have 5 1/2 month old DD who lately is very clingy. She cries all the time it seems. I normally wear her around for a good part of the day or I put her down on a mat with her toys and sit next to her. She usually likes both of these things. Sometimes she even likes being in her jumper or exersaucer.

But then she goes through these times in the day where she is ONLY happy if I am holding her (or wearing her). SHe is not ok with me sitting down next to her while she plays etc.

Its so frustrating for me because I need to do things like go to the bathroom or eat lunch but I can't without causing her to cry. She also will get upset when I change her diaper,not because she minds having her diaper changed but because I have to put her down to do it. Then when I go to wash my hands and she sees me walking away she really loses it. She used to not be bothered by this.

I am getting lots of outside advice from MIL and others that I have "spoiled" my baby by babywearing, cosleeping, etc and all of this clinginess if the result of it. I'm starting to doubt myself and my parenting beliefs. PLease help. have you experienced this? Will DD grow out of this phase? Thank you!!

[Abraisme]

This is totally normal and happens to some babies whether they're ap babies or not.. Yes, she will outgrow it! There's probably some seperation anxiety or teething going on, plus some babies just need more movement and stimulation. Remember this is so much more about your child's personality than it is about parenting. You're doing great!

[red and lulu]

Don't doubt yourself mama!! When people suggest you're spoiling your baby, just sweetly tell them that you can't spoil a baby. You are doing exactly what you should be doing which is responding to your daughter's needs in a way that feels right and natural to you.

I've felt the same way you are (and everyone had something to say about it, too... "well if you'd only let her sleep in a crib ack ack ack"). It will pass.... eventually. There's a lot going on in that little body and brain of hers. Pretty soon she'll be zooming about and you'll long for the days when she clang to you like an appendage (maybe)