i am rather obese by medical standards. i weighed the other day, and at 41w i am 260lbs. i am 5'7''. im okay with my body,a nd my husband is too, and to me thats all that matters. i am healthy, and regardless of what medical proffesionals say about "obesity" i wont have it. the way i see it, if God saw a problem with us being fluffy, he would have said something about it
you can be big and healthy. so i wouldnt worry about it. we UC, we tried clomid, metformin, everything my dr handed me to concieve this first one, and dang it all, it wasnt until we decided to trust Gods timing, and accept my body for how it is that we got pregnant
(took 3 years and 2 losses) so i wouldnt worry about it honestly. if you start feeling icky, then check ur blood sugars
but i wouldnt worry about being bigger, in any aspect of your life.
... oh and i thought i would add, i have pcos, and i gained 80 lbs one year because of it, and metformin helped me temporarily lose weight, but not keep it off. love your bodies people, we arent all supposed to be the same. eat healthy, and excercise, and laugh. and dont fall for all of the stereotypical media pushed be skinny or ugly crap. love your bodies, and stop judging yourselves. love yourself, and those who arent in "societies standard guidelines" you would be amazed at how much happier you are!