On a side note: My divorce is FINALLY FINISHED!!! Yay!! I went back into court when Ciaran was 2 weeks old with all of my paperwork in place and I had the same judge that refused to divorce me while I was pregnant. He REFUSED AGAIN!! All over missing one little form that was the equivalent of dotting and "i" and crossing a "t." I was so upset that I burst into tears. Six hours in court with a brand new baby and still nothing! The court clerk was very kind and arranged to get me in front of a different judge who granted the divorce without a problem!! YAYYYY!!! It is FINALLY over... I feel like having a party! It is such a relief.