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post #21 of 26
I started out reading out loud while we were breastfeeding in the early days ... Charlotte's Web, Now We Are Six, Dennis Lee, and sometimes whatever I was reading, just so she'd get used to being read to.

Then we moved onto board books. I follow her lead. In the beginning, she just played with them, then slowly she would rest upon a page long enough for me to read it. When I could, I would track the words with my finger, so that she'd associate the words with what I was saying.

If she wanted to read two pages, cool. If she wanted to read the same book over and over (her current phase), cool. We were at the library today and she kept picking out this book that I do not like one bit (even if I tucked it away, she'd seek it out), but I dutifully and cheerfully read it each time.

We have a large basket of books she can play freely with, and it includes board books and books with pages. She often brings them to me for me to read, and when we do this, she sits in my lap and we read for as long as she wants. Or other times she picks a book or two and takes them to the dog bed, where she boots the dog out, climbs in and 'reads' to herself.

We read two books after bath time and before lights out and nursing. She also sees me reading all the time. Like, all. the. time. She has a bath with me every night, and while she plays, I read. Sometimes I read out loud to her in the bath too.

We also go to story time at the library every week, and she picks books to sign out then.

Hopefully some of this helps! I'm a writer myself, and voracious reader, so I'm doing everything I can to raise a kid who loves stories and reading. I never ever push to finish a book, and I always follow her lead. I also use lots of voices, and point out things she can find in the pictures.

Have fun with it! And just keep in mind that books are not precious ... the love of reading is, and if there are a few ripped pages or pen-marked pictures along the way, then so be it!
post #22 of 26
I did a lot of reading to the room when DS1 was younger while he played with something else. If I did manage to get him in my lap, we usually only made it one or two pages into the book before he would take it from me to chew or throw. I didn't try to force it because I didn't want him to hate reading. When he was 16 months something just clicked for him, and he can't get enough books now. He loves when we read together.
post #23 of 26
We did barely any reading from about 9 months to 15 months. We'd try. We'd try reading normally, we'd try reading with her playing with a toy, we'd try reading over her shoulder as she flipped through the book (board books only and not from the library *riiiiiippp!!!!*). She'd take the book from us. Including when she was holding it, she'd turn it away, or slam it shut and throw the book on the floor.

Now she lets us read as she turns the pages. Mostly while on the toilet. Funnily enough, she'll often deliberately hold the book upside down when we're facing her so we can read the words more easily.

Interestingly, her interest in being read to corresponded with the ability to put her books back in their box when asked. And both things happened about the same time she stopped pulling all my hard cover fiction onto the floor 2-3 times a day. It's like she all of a sudden decided that books were for babies and the books with pictures and larger "a b b a e i e i"s (her way of saying something has letters on it) were definitely hers.
post #24 of 26
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Thanks mama, Im gonna try a lot of your suggestions. I just wanted to say that Im in no way a book nazy lol, she has books in her playard and her crib that she plays with and some of them have now become two sepparate books and that's cool, but there are some that are gifts and are very old books and those are the ones I dont want her to play with. I guess I get frustrated because I love reading out loud so much and I guess in my head I had this image of this peaceful baby who loves hearing her mama's voice, but I think I wasnt being too realistic. I never really spent much time with babies before.

She has a big picture book she got as a gift and she LOVES that, let's me sit with her on the floor and point things out and say their name and she will just stare at me and blabber away. Also some animal flash cards and we do those things pretty often. I also do a lot of story telling while I walk her around. I love coming up with stories. I used to do it for my friends, it's so much more fun to do it for a baby because I dont hold back and let my imagination go wild. I've been actually thinking of writing some of them down, because I like them a lot. Starling&diesel, Im a writer too. I dont like to call myself that, but I write haha, mostly in Spanish that's my native language.

I've gotten great suggestions and I just need to remind myself that she's a baby and right now she just wants to grab/eat everything and I can read to her when she's in the bath, floor, crib or playard playing.
post #25 of 26
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Originally Posted by CookAMH View Post
True, but having them engaged in hearing your voice is wonderful for them so it's nice to read if they're playing on the floor or otherwise occupied. They still tune in even if they don't comprehend what is said.
That's why I even read scientific articles to my child. This way I get him engaged and I get to do work.
post #26 of 26
Thread Starter 
The idea of reading her while she plays on the floor was great. She loves this, she will actually stop playing and look at me and smile and laugh. I turn the book so she can look at the pictures while I read. She just gets SO happy and I do too!

Thank you!
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