I'm wracking my brain right now and not finding any answers online about this. Since this forum seems to hold really smart & knowledgeable and btdt people, I'd thought to try here.
This is long, but I want to give as much pertinent info as possible.
We're expecting. Not planned. At all. We're keeping it.
So, since we have no insurance, we need to go on state health insurance for this pregnancy. With ds, I had to go on Medi-Cal, but that was a very different time (both dh and I were full time students, not married, etc). So I'm not completely oblivious to the process, but when first on it we literally didn't have a dime to our names. We pay out of pocket for the rare doctor's visits we've needed.
This time around, we own a car. A newer car (07), but it's a base Honda Fit
(cheap). We have about 4k in savings, but I have a feeling that that is going to be used up soon since we're going to need to move with this baby (it's taken us 2+ years to save that up too). We're currently renting a room from MIL. One room is enough for 3, but not 4. Scouring the ads, the cheapest rent is going to be $900 a month. We take home about $1800 a month.
Last September, dh got a letter in the mail. Apparently his mom set up a trust fund for him that rolled over that year. It's now a mutual fund, with about 6k in it.
We also set up a college fund for ds. MIL, my mom and other relatives have contributed to it (we haven't yet, so none of the $$$ is ours). It's under MIL and dh's name and currently has around $1k in it.
So, on paper, it looks like we have a bunch of $$$ that really isn't there or wouldn't last more than a few months with rent here. When MIL finds out about this pregnancy, we are out. Literally.
Do we have to 'spend down' this amount before qualifying? I'm afraid they'll look at assets, put us on a 'pay out of pocket' plan that, in a few months we won't be able to afford. I'm not even sure how much $$ we would get if we pulled everything out of the mutual fund, kwim? To make matters worse, we need a different car too, since 2 car seats will not fit into the car we have and leave dh room to either be a passenger or a driver.
Ami
This is long, but I want to give as much pertinent info as possible.We're expecting. Not planned. At all. We're keeping it.
So, since we have no insurance, we need to go on state health insurance for this pregnancy. With ds, I had to go on Medi-Cal, but that was a very different time (both dh and I were full time students, not married, etc). So I'm not completely oblivious to the process, but when first on it we literally didn't have a dime to our names. We pay out of pocket for the rare doctor's visits we've needed.
This time around, we own a car. A newer car (07), but it's a base Honda Fit
(cheap). We have about 4k in savings, but I have a feeling that that is going to be used up soon since we're going to need to move with this baby (it's taken us 2+ years to save that up too). We're currently renting a room from MIL. One room is enough for 3, but not 4. Scouring the ads, the cheapest rent is going to be $900 a month. We take home about $1800 a month.
Last September, dh got a letter in the mail. Apparently his mom set up a trust fund for him that rolled over that year. It's now a mutual fund, with about 6k in it.
We also set up a college fund for ds. MIL, my mom and other relatives have contributed to it (we haven't yet, so none of the $$$ is ours). It's under MIL and dh's name and currently has around $1k in it.
So, on paper, it looks like we have a bunch of $$$ that really isn't there or wouldn't last more than a few months with rent here. When MIL finds out about this pregnancy, we are out. Literally.
Do we have to 'spend down' this amount before qualifying? I'm afraid they'll look at assets, put us on a 'pay out of pocket' plan that, in a few months we won't be able to afford. I'm not even sure how much $$ we would get if we pulled everything out of the mutual fund, kwim? To make matters worse, we need a different car too, since 2 car seats will not fit into the car we have and leave dh room to either be a passenger or a driver.

Ami












