Mothering › Forums › Breastfeeding › Lactivism › What made you "aware" of BF'ing?
New Posts  All Forums:Forum Nav:

What made you "aware" of BF'ing? - Page 4

post #61 of 69
I also grew up around animals nursing their young, cats, dogs, horses, cows, goats but never realized it may have played a role until reading this lovely thread. I was breastfed, but not sure how long. I do have vague early memories and they include a bottle. I know I was bf because my brother (who is 6 yrs older) told me about the birds and the bees when I was 6. He must've told me about breastfeeding because I have a clear memory of going into my parents bedroom (which we kids never did) and asking my mommy if I could nurse again. I even remember the look of confusion and embarrassment on her face. I don't know if it was a prank my siblings put me up to, but I remember everything about those few moments perfectly, the way everything looked and how she looked.... anyway I got pregnant with my 1st when I was 22. He came very early and was in NICU for wks (I knew nothing of crunchy then and was pretty much not crunchy...)(He was born at 28 wks, but was fully formed, I delivered naturally and he never needed oxygen or anything, his lungs were perfect) I remember people (hospital, social services, WIC?) telling me how my breastmilk would help him so much. The hospital gave me a pump to have at home and I pumped all the time. I visited him twice a day for as long as they would let me each time, and delivered my milk daily (I remember even getting mad when they mixed up which to give him next, I knew about colostrum from animals and they skipped the colostrum bags). He died from SIDS days after coming home. I donated all my pumped milk. Fast forward 10 years, I was still not crunchy much, I was eating organic was about it. I heard about EC while pregnant with dd1. I read all about it and joined the yahoo group. I learned about all sorts of things on there, like extended breastfeeding, cosleeping, no vax, MDC, and my door to many things, "The Continuum Concept" I had thought I would breastfeed dd for maybe 3 months, then return to work.... then I read TCC. I fed dd1 until she was 3.5yo and should have gone longer, we weren't ready to quit, but her dad wanted to take her to CA and since we were divorced, I couldn't go.... she went for 10 days and we never resumed. dd2 is still going strong at 16 mo (she nurses all day and night) and I was able to retain my extra weight with her which will keep me making milk. I will go as long as we both want to and my body is capable.
post #62 of 69
I had no awareness of breastfeeding, I was formula fed myself, as was DH & all his sibs; but I had bred sheep for many years before having children, & if there's one thing was was a huge hassle (all that washing, mixing, heating), expense, & risk (bottle babies were more likely to die, as lamb milk replacer is inferior & doesn't confer immunities), it was a bottle fed lamb - I'd do anything to keep a lamb on its mother or graft it on another ewe to avoid bottlefeeding it! So I just figured, I was a mammal, I'd feed my own babies!
post #63 of 69
What a great thread!

My mom BF'ed us, and is a real lactivist. I remember growing up and her telling us (my sibs and I) how great nursing was. There are several pictures of me "nursing" stuffed animals and dolls. I was the oldest and apparently when my mother nursed my youngest sister I would "nurse" a doll right alongside her. We also slept with my parents and they never let us CIO (well, my dad did that once and never heard the end of it from my mom ). They also did babywearing at a time where there weren't a lot of awesome babywearing options. But, I feel pretty fortunate b/c my parents had all of us late 70s/early 80s which seemed to be a pretty "unnatural" time for parenting but they did all the things that are now considered to be AP. Anyway, my mom is definitely my number one inspiration for nursing, I grew up thinking that was the normal way to feed a baby. I love my mom, she's one awesome lady.
post #64 of 69
I had no information on bfing and was set to ff. I was forced to take an unpaid maternity leave and only work pt after that. My husband convinced me to try bfing because formula is so expensive.

I was so misinformed that I viewed bfing as disgusting-I had only ever viewed breasts as... decorations?

After I tried BFing my daughter (swearing the whole time I would stop asap) I quickly fell in love with it. I looked up LLL and got better information. I loved having the "excuse" to hold her and spend time with her.
post #65 of 69
My step sister was the first woman I ever saw breastfeed. She gave birth naturally to her daughter when we were both 15. She went on to breastfeed her. Her mother had breastfed. From that day on I understood the miracle of natural birth and breastfeeding. I was inspired when I became a mother despite some difficulties getting started with my first to keep at it. I knew if a teenager could do it, I could do it. I was 26. I've always respected her for giving me that gift. She is my best friend.
post #66 of 69
My mother breastfed all six of us. There were pictures of her nursing us in the family photo albums so it was something I grew up knowing all my life. Seemed (and still does!) like the most natural thing in the world.
post #67 of 69
These stories are so beautiful!
post #68 of 69
I always knew that my mom breastfed me and my siblings, and when I was 11 years old, my mom babysat for a family friend, who was also our homeschooling coordinator. I vividly remember my mom feeding her sons pumped breastmilk while rocking them, and having them play with my moms hair and face, defrosting the milk for my mom, taking the boys to our friend during the day, having her sit down on our floor and nurse after work, and also seeing her go into her office to pump at work. I remember watching my mom hold our friend as she cried because the night janitor unplugged her mini fridge and ruined TONS of pumped milk.

If she could do all this, then I thought to myself at 11 years old, "breastfeeding must be THAT important."
post #69 of 69
My sister and I were BF, but I really didn't think much about it until shortly before I got pregnant with DS. I had a cousin who I admired and she was nursing her DD at the time. She also nursed her first child when she was young and a single mother at that time. I thought if she's doing it, I can do it! So I nursed DS for around 2 years, and am still nursing DD who is 34 months.
New Posts  All Forums:Forum Nav:
  Return Home
  Back to Forum: Lactivism
Mothering › Forums › Breastfeeding › Lactivism › What made you "aware" of BF'ing?