So, I joined DH's gym. I'm 33 and realize that being "naturally fit" no longer applies. I'm just more rounded and doughy that I am used to LOL. Plus, DD2 recently weaned, and I've put a few pounds on. Here's the thing, I have no idea what to do at the gym!
FTR, I have quite bulky muscles, so I'd like lean muscles, if that makes sense. Too much weight-lifting really bulks me up. I am getting flabby in the regular areas (my butt is jiggling way too much lately, and that's not a sensation that I enjoy) and my upper arms have that flab to them (I am studying to be a teacher and the prospect of writing on a chalkboard is causing some anxiety LOL).
So, how often do you go to the gym and what do you do there? What is your mix of cardio and weight-bearing? Do you do any "maintenance" at home between gym visits?
FTR, I have quite bulky muscles, so I'd like lean muscles, if that makes sense. Too much weight-lifting really bulks me up. I am getting flabby in the regular areas (my butt is jiggling way too much lately, and that's not a sensation that I enjoy) and my upper arms have that flab to them (I am studying to be a teacher and the prospect of writing on a chalkboard is causing some anxiety LOL).
So, how often do you go to the gym and what do you do there? What is your mix of cardio and weight-bearing? Do you do any "maintenance" at home between gym visits?








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