I have the numbers of a couple different LLL places to call and another Mama here said to join early,like before the baby is even born so you can have a good relationship with your consultant. So I guess I'll be calling them soon.
The reason I need my friend to help me is the language issue. Have you ever traveled to another country where they don't speak your language? Imagine yourself at a flea market and you want to buy something. Well many of the people selling things will speak some English and maybe you speak a little of their language,but the transaction isn't that easy. Now imagine doing that over the phone. Papi and I get very frustrated on the phone when having serious conversation. We never talked much on the phone it was either on MSN or in person.
I may have Amigo help me write down in a very simple way what I need to say to him and then I will call him and read it out to him. If it gets out of hand Amigo can take over the call and explain it better then me. I have a feeling if I call he will not answer my phone even IF his number is still the same,remember he told me he would change all his numbers etc... If I can send him a text telling him "estoy embarazada" I can be sure that he will call me asap and let it ring and ring until I answer it! I may just have to send him a message on facebook if he doesn't respond to a call or text. I know that he still has the account though he did change the name of it.
I feel like I have to try and reach him and tell him. If not welfare will do it after the baby is born and they will ask for child support. I'd rather tell him now about the baby then after the birth.
The reason I need my friend to help me is the language issue. Have you ever traveled to another country where they don't speak your language? Imagine yourself at a flea market and you want to buy something. Well many of the people selling things will speak some English and maybe you speak a little of their language,but the transaction isn't that easy. Now imagine doing that over the phone. Papi and I get very frustrated on the phone when having serious conversation. We never talked much on the phone it was either on MSN or in person.
I may have Amigo help me write down in a very simple way what I need to say to him and then I will call him and read it out to him. If it gets out of hand Amigo can take over the call and explain it better then me. I have a feeling if I call he will not answer my phone even IF his number is still the same,remember he told me he would change all his numbers etc... If I can send him a text telling him "estoy embarazada" I can be sure that he will call me asap and let it ring and ring until I answer it! I may just have to send him a message on facebook if he doesn't respond to a call or text. I know that he still has the account though he did change the name of it.
I feel like I have to try and reach him and tell him. If not welfare will do it after the baby is born and they will ask for child support. I'd rather tell him now about the baby then after the birth.
