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I was going to say what Betsy asked. Can you get an advocate (I didn't get a chance to read all the responses so it could have been discussed). I had an advocate for my boys and I won't do another IEP without her. Even if you aren't arguing over things like you are this time, they usually still are worth every penny to make sure everything is covered. Some will do pro bono or set up payment plans. Also, getting an advocate involved may keep you from going to mediation and get this over quicker.
Good luck!

ETA: I just read your last response. You definitely need to tape these meetings if you aren't. I am sorry you are going through this!