Your dh is hiding something, but it's not what you think it is. From what I can tell, it has nothing to do with you. It's a personal, private issue. Like some midlife crisis or something to that affect. You prying and pulling on him is not helping and is harming your relationship a little bit b/c he just wants to deal with this himself. Try to remember that just b/c someone is your partner in life, it doesn't mean that they have to tell you e.v.e.r.y.t.h.i.n.g. They don't. They can have some of their own private thoughts and things they want to work out themselves. I feel that what is going on for him may even be a spiritual revelation thing and he's just not ready to share it yet. I encourage you to tell him that you love him, and that you although you feel there is something he is hiding, that you are choosing to trust that it is really just him needing some space and that whenever, IF ever he will let you in on it, if he needs/wants to. Tell him you are there for him and you love and trust him and you respect
his need for privacy. I think he will come to you with what is going on, much quicker than the way you are dealing with it.*Please remember that all questions are answered here on the forum only. I do not accept private pm's for more information on your question.*
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