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Originally Posted by jennica 
Maybe you feel comfortable relying on this method, but most people aren't led around by the hand by some force who protects them from danger. Things can and do happen to people in homebirth or hospital settings, and when weighing the risks and benefits of a certain procedure, it would be irresponsible to to trust that some magical voice will tell us if something is wrong. Tragedies happen, and no magical voice told those people that something was wrong.
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| My comments were directed at a specific part of Honeybee's post, which I felt was extremely disrespectful to the very diverse audience here on MDC. I was not arguing for the 20 week ultrasound, in fact I am having a homebirth and probably wont be getting the 20 week scan. I never implied that people who choose not to get the 20 week scan are doing so because magic voices talk to them - but rather I was saying that when we weigh the risks and benefits of any medical procedure, it is irresponsible to suggest that we don't need a certain procedure because we will be guided in some way towards safety if something really is wrong. That is simply not true. When bad outcomes happen it wasn't because of those peoples religious persuasions or the amount of faith they had in their god/body/birth/etc. To suggest otherwise is extremely offensive and insensitive to the wide variety of beliefs, or lack of beliefs here on MDC, as well as to people who did have bad outcomes. |
I think you've misinterpreted what I was saying. First, I was only talking about my own comfort levels with ultrasound and homebirth, and saying faith plays a part in MY decision for ME. I also mentioned the studies and statistics I've looked into... so obviously I'm not basing all of my decision on some "magic voice."

Second, yes, tragedies can happen to anyone at anytime. And I never said or implied... because I don't believe it's true... that bad outcomes only happen to people due to a lack of faith or religious beliefs. Sometimes babies will die or be born with disabilities, no matter how much "faith" we have or how many "tests" we've had or how much technological equipment we surround ourselves with, or how much we isolate ourselves from all technology. There are no guarantees, but it is human nature to latch onto one theory or another to hedge our bets and make ourselves
feel safer.
When I say I have faith that I will end up where I need to be, I meant it... but to me that doesn't guarantee a perfect outcome. I just know from personal experience that when I surrender myself to follow those inner promptings... whether that is intuition, God, the collective consciousness or whatever name you want to give it... things always turn out much better for me
in the long run. That doesn't mean tragedy never happens... only that I will be in the best place and surrounded by the best people and support system if it does.