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I'm getting sick of this

post #1 of 8
Thread Starter 
Nursing all.the.time. Seriously. Nurse ds3 for half an hour, finish, nurse ds2 for half an hour, finish, do something for half an hour. DS3 wants to nurse again.
UGH!

eta: This is not a post asking for advice along the lines of "wean". I am not looking for permission and I actually do not appreciate. I would appreciate whatever support or advice you might have though.
post #2 of 8
It *should* get better with time- DS 3 will nurse more efficiently and less often. That said, I have a 19 onth old and a 5 month old. I totally understand. Vent away!
post #3 of 8
No real advice, just and
post #4 of 8
Oooh. BTDT.
Its a tough row to hoe but it does get better A lot of "I can make through today/this nursing" w/e, went on at my place. Sadly, I ended up weaning my oldest child after awhile, but a tooth infection was more the culprit.
Doing stuff in short spurts became a habit too (check out my bedroom, I just rearranged it in 15 minutes, I'll pick up the mess later )
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post #6 of 8
Ugh. I feel you. Only because I remember with my first two kids, and now I will be you in just a few days (nursing two). It is so hard, but honestly, it *does* help to vent and complain just like you did do. My best friend IRL and I love to complain about hard things with our kids because we know that although it is hard, we are doing the right things.

So I am going to tell you: you can do it! Try to de-stress whenever you can: a bath, takeout pizza, watch TV all day.

While you are sitting (or stopped, at least) nursing, plan the activities you need to do next. Oh, also I just remembered that it will be warmer soon, and that will help a lot in terms of being able to go out more.

My kids are sick right now, and this is just a hellish day. Jacqueline, I think this is the most unhelpful post I have ever written, but I had to respond. You are doing great, and I do think the change in weather will help -- it is all that is keeping me holding on!

Another tip: I have a fantasy project that I "work" on as sort of a treat when I can't get up. I am trying to find some fabric to make some bedroom accessories and drapes and all that. So, when I have to sit down, I just search and search for the perfect fabric. I browse ravelry for interesting patterns, I check out mothering.com (of course!).

Also, this:

a confession: I wish I could nurse my two big kids right now because they are so sick! At least my younger boy will get to nurse his illness away in a few short days when I have my baby!
post #7 of 8
BTDT. I agree it may get better. My DD2 nursed all.the.time for the first year. I almost lost my mind! She'll be 2 next week and nurses about 4Xs a day now.
post #8 of 8
Thread Starter 
Thank you for the support, sympathy and empathy. It makes it a little more bearable.
I don't have any desire to wean right now, the thought makes me sad, but it's so hard when I have so much that needs to be done and most of my time is spent nursing!
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