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post #21 of 36
I've been MIA overall, though I usually lurk here if I even have the chance to peek at all...

We're renovating a trailer that will be our guest house and studio once our house is built, which won't begin until next year since we're expecting baby #5 this summer.

This last week we pulled out a wall and replaced it with a hand-built floor-to-ceiling bookcase, and we have two more walls to do that way. We also framed in 20' of wall with our front door rough-in and a picture window. It's leaning against the non-wall that is keeping the winter out of our living room and kitchen right now; we ran out of wood and had to wait for a paycheck to buy more.

Our house, next year, will be handbuilt with indigenous materials (stone, wood, cob- sand, clay and reed or if we have to, straw, etc...).

For now, tomorrow we will be buying the cottage board for the exterior, putting the wall up, and hand-building a door, then hanging it. That means our front door can stop being in our bedroom...

We've been here since December and it was too cold to do anything until this month, and next we will build a chicken coop for 80 chickens, gut the bathroom, rebuild it, and replace floors from the subfloors up in four rooms. Then it's bedrooms and when it warms up, truss roof and ceiling removal, and walls that are left will be removed or just de-skinned and re-faced with wood.

The exterior is last and will be sided with rough-cut pinewood planks.

We're turning our trailer into a wood cabin, essentially, and I'm in a bit of a hurry now because my belly is just at the point where it will begin to be in the way of my arms and my ability to carry heavy objects or use heavy tools.

We have the wood acclimating in the house now for a 4'x6' dining table and benches that we have to build next week sometime- possibly the week afterward.

This all takes about four times longer with it just being dp and me because we still have all the usual chores and child-tending that would happen on any other day. I also have to keep the kitchen going with traditional foods and have a May deadline for a body of artwork to be juried.

Dp works on-call and auxilliary for groups homes as a youth services worker and he just called to tell me that they require him to be there tomorrow from 4-6pm. They are an hour from our home. Grrrrrr.... That little trip is big for us and ruins the whole day's plans.

I can't wait for him to take parental leave.

It's more exhausting describing all of this than just doing it, so I think I should stop...

We're acquiring two mouser cats in the next few weeks; we live in the wilderness on a farm and right now, while the floors are old and there are little holes all over the building, they come in quite often, usually in groups. It'll be nice to have some mousers around to keep our kitchen safe.

Our chicken order is happening soon- 20 layers and 60 meat birds. YAY! We eat a dozen eggs a day, so having those ready for us at the cost of feed and maintenance will be huge savings for us. We're paying $5/dozen now at the farm we live on (owned and shared by our friends) which is much better than the organic dozens at the store in town that go for $7. Our dozen will cost us approximately $1.35 in the winter and under a quarter during the spring and summer.

There's so much going on here right now (not unlike anyone else on this thread, I'm sure!); the reason I can post is that dp is at work, and I am taking a break from the regular work of the day.

How do you arrange sleeping quarters? We're planning on having a large dormitory for just sleeping and then other rooms for playing/studying/working/etc... So there would be only beds in the dormitory with a pocket for each bed of things that each child likes having near him at bed- a book or two, a stuffed toy, a flashlight, etc..., but nothing more so that there cannot be messes of toys and pencils and other things in there. The study/library, play/recreation room and studio would all satisfy the need for sprawling things around for enjoyment and use.

Does anyone else do this? Are you happy with it?

We've found that given our dc's sleep difficulties, a room that has as little potential distractions as possible is best for sleep for them, so that is also a major consideration for us.

Does anyone here homestead?
post #22 of 36
ANother homesteader here. We got our chicks the 2nd week of February this year, so they are feathered out nicely and will go out to join the flock in a few more weeks. We only had to supplement with 8 hens this year, our mega batch last year did well. SO the 8 chicks are in the living room in a parrot cage.Such an improvement over the 60 in the house last year the week I gave birth!
The weather is turning increasingly nicer...minus tornado threats and wildfires(the local people do a good job of controlled burns early to eliminate wildfires, but there are always the out of control times). We are building a top bar hive to do bees this year, have expanded to five gardens , and are gearing up to get 4 piglets. It looks like this is the year we are getting a horse too...Brian told Trinity and Christian it would be their joint birthday gift and their birthdays are this month and next...I am scouring craigslist for that perfect treasure(and I am probably too picky).
We went hiking after church last week and I fell down some steps and tore my tendons and ligaments. I am in a walking cast with crutches. The Dr. told me to stay completely off it for 3-4 days... umm yeah,right. It isn't hurting as badly, so we are doing good.
We have sleeping quarters like you mentioned...the girls sleep in one room, the boys in another, and there is a "playroom" that is where all the toys are and books and such. We also have a library for art and computer and older kid stuff. It definately works for us. One bonus reason is I don't like toys in bedrooms is that when friends come over I do not want them in the bedrooms...start young and carry over type thing. It was how my parents did it and I think it was wise.
I hope everyone else is feeling great!
post #23 of 36
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SO the 8 chicks are in the living room in a parrot cage.Such an improvement over the 60 in the house last year the week I gave birth!
and and ! We're planning a heat-lamp brooder, although that will depend on the temperature when they arrive; I'm hoping that we won't have to keep them in the house, but if necessary, then that's what we'll do. But we'll also be introducing our mousers, so it may be a bit crowded in here. Our friends may let us use a corner of their barn since they have so many more bodies in there, and manure, for heat.

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The weather is turning increasingly nicer...minus tornado threats and wildfires(the local people do a good job of controlled burns early to eliminate wildfires, but there are always the out of control times). We are building a top bar hive to do bees this year, have expanded to five gardens , and are gearing up to get 4 piglets. It looks like this is the year we are getting a horse too...Brian told Trinity and Christian it would be their joint birthday gift and their birthdays are this month and next...I am scouring craigslist for that perfect treasure(and I am probably too picky).
That is so great!

We're planning to add goats next spring and possibly a dairy cow. We already have two geese and this year, I forgot to mention, we'll be adding probably a dozen more; open water is the difficulty here- we don't have any on the property, so we had tubs for the geese last year (at a different home), but with so many more, that's a lot more water to haul. So it's not decided yet.

We'll have bees next year too. I loooove bees! And a garden that we will only be able to plot and begin to prepare for production the following year.

Our boys are really looking forward to having a horse, but that'll be a few years from now. We'll bring in a few dogs this summer though, so that will be fun for them.

Are your children intimately involved in the daily homesteading?

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We went hiking after church last week and I fell down some steps and tore my tendons and ligaments. I am in a walking cast with crutches. The Dr. told me to stay completely off it for 3-4 days... umm yeah,right. It isn't hurting as badly, so we are doing good.
Stay off your feet... Only if you have a remarkable ability to walk on your hands, right?


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We have sleeping quarters like you mentioned...the girls sleep in one room, the boys in another, and there is a "playroom" that is where all the toys are and books and such. We also have a library for art and computer and older kid stuff. It definately works for us. One bonus reason is I don't like toys in bedrooms is that when friends come over I do not want them in the bedrooms...start young and carry over type thing. It was how my parents did it and I think it was wise.
That's very encouraging! I think it is best for us too, and our house design, which is really just in my head right now, will be this way. Part of the reason we haven't settled on the design is that we don't know if this baby is a girl or a boy, so we don't know whether we'll need another room or not. In either case, we'll be leveling the ground and building the driveway in from the highway this year and we'll have a while before the exact design has to be settled.

Must go; there's tempura paint all over the kitchen floor... and my 28 month old.
post #24 of 36
Building your own house! Now that is exciting! I wish I had those expertise. I am pretty good with powertools; but, self taught. And very crude and adaptable. I tend to jerry-rig most things to fit my needs and love to find uses for the tiniest of scraps from other projects. I just hate to see things go to waste, and hate to spend money on materials when I have perfectly good stuff just sitting there begging to be used.

One day I hope to have sufficiently honed my skills to be considered semi-professional. As it stands, everything I make has a distinct "home-made" look and feel, though it is very sturdy (a must in my family).
post #25 of 36
Me too. I'm completely self-taught and learn as needed. The wall framing and bookcase happened in my head in the morning and then we built them. I make a rough diagram with accurate measurements and this time my dp did all the cuts because I find it causes lots of contractions if I do it.

My dp has no ability to think in 3-D, so he jokes that he's my grunt or muscle for our projects. About half-way through, he'll happily exclaim, "OH! NOW I see it!"

I also cannot stand wasting building materials. We have moved scraps from one place to the next because I just won't waste it. And I really don't. I have always found practical uses for wood scraps. We also keep a very bare home- no clutter- so I'm not a packrat, but rather a practical-rat, I guess.

One of the biggest motivators for me to build our own furnishings and home is defintiely the need for sturdiness. I don't want to have to treat our furnishings and home with delicacy. My brother and his wife used to live in a condo with cherry floors, and nobody could walk anywhere but on the runners. To me, that is the ultimate in ridiculous- floors you can't walk on...

We're pretty much polar opposites though. He's a through-and-through town mouse and I detest the city overall, and couldn't even begin to imagine living in the centre of a city with a population of 2.5 million people with 24 hr everything.

We moved to a remote town of 200 in the wilderness, 4 hrs away from the next town of a few thousand, and nothing else anywhere. Then we moved to where we are now, 30 minutes from a small city of 22,000, in the mountains, and we decided to be closer to a city because we have a town-mouse in our family and we realised that if we are going to make a permanent home, we should build where both the wilderness and the city are within reach. Because of the lay of the land, we don't even have any ambient light from the city, and certainly no noise at all; it's silent except for the wildlife here. The highway is little used and leads to a much smaller community further north.

I marvel that some have figured out how to raise large families in the city; I wouldn't have a clue how to do it. I've know families with ten to twleve children living in the suburbs... amazing. Not in a negative way (live where you're comfortable!), but just with honest ignorance. I grew up in major cities and didn't feel like I had any clue how to live until I left.

I guess I'm genetically predisposed to the wild. Well, and to taming it a bit with livestock and gardens...
post #26 of 36
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Me too. I'm completely self-taught and learn as needed. The wall framing and bookcase happened in my head in the morning and then we built them.
I thought that maybe I was the only one that did that! I can "see" what I want, then I sketch, then measure, then draw up designs, then build.

So far, my master pieces include the tripple bunk for my sons and our computer desk that holds three computer work stations. I have done a ton of shelves, including those that hold my personal library (over 1,000 books) and our massive DVD collection (over 1,000 cases). I just drew up my designs on a room dividing shelf/closet for my girls that I will be building next weekend. I think it may be the largest and best work I have ever attempted yet. It is so much fun! I love my power tools!
post #27 of 36
Yay! It's hard to image not being practical, right?

I am always amazed that books with patterns for such things sell. I just cannot imagine being bothered to revise them to make them fit into my space (usually not standard or had to be built without marking the walls of rentals- before now anyway) or meet our needs (four and soon to be five dc who will [ab]use them). It's so much faster just to do it ourselves. Also less expensive and it fits without revision or trying to pile yet another book onto our shelves.

Of course, for my dp, a book of revisable patterns is exactly what makes sense to him (has pics of the finished objects and guidelines/instructions/measurements for building), so obviously there is an audience for them; I mean that *I* just couldn't be bothered to do the mental work twice- too inefficient.

Nope, you're not alone; we just all hide-out in the closets we design and build ourselves.
post #28 of 36
I love all the homesteading talk! Keep the stories coming.

PreggieUBA2C - where are you? Do you mind giving us the general area? Just so I can imagine it a little better . . .

(I'm in San Diego.)
post #29 of 36
The sky is blue today, I am loving it! Someone at church asked if I dressed all the kids in blue on purpose to match it and I replied yes in all seriousness . Lol, I don't exactly match them, but they are coordinated. My Step mother in law thinks it is horrid to do that, but the kids like it so I'm good. It is only for pictures and church anyhow. I really want to do matching dresses for all three girls for Easter, but the 9 year spread between dd1 and dd2 makes it kinda awkward.
Kinda quiet this month, I hope everyone is having a good spring beginning!
post #30 of 36
well wow.....I guess it's official now. Officially official. I'm a mom of more than 3.... or will be in late Nov. early Dec....
post #31 of 36
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well wow.....I guess it's official now. Officially official. I'm a mom of more than 3.... or will be in late Nov. early Dec....
Congrats peaceful_mama I hope everything goes smoothly for you
post #32 of 36
Congrats peaceful mama!
I try to dress my kids in similar colors when we are out so that they are easy to spot and people might know that they belong with us.
post #33 of 36
Yes, congratulations!
post #34 of 36
Congrats to you, peaceful mama!

Dh is more than ready to go for another one. If he could just convince me it would be a boy, I would go for it. Then we could have the younger two together and the older 4 together.

Our girls share bunk beds. So we have 2 bunk beds in one room. Each girl has a bookshelf on the wall that can contain their "treasures". That helps to limit them on how much they can have.

I would love to have chickens, but we live (on the edge) of town. We don't have a fence (yet) so I would worry that the neighbors' dogs would get them.

We do the similar clothes too. It makes for interesting comments. The girls have identical swim suits which helps in crowded pools.

Last week at the grocery store, I was shopping alone, but the lady behind me asked me if I ran a daycare after looking at what I all had in my cart. I just laughed and told her that I just have 5 kids.
post #35 of 36
Right now the three youngest all sleep with us but when my nephew moves out this summer after highschool graduation, we are moving all beds/dressers to that room and making the current room they all share into just a big play/toy room! I told dh that several of you already do this and he said, "we can't be the only smart people in the world!" LOL

Congrats Peaceful Mama!! It's wonderful news!
post #36 of 36
The boys have one room and we have ours. There is a play room, an office for DH, the school/storage room (may eventually become a girls' room, I hope!), and the main living area. I love having it all compartmentalized that way. We are planning on doing some remodeling to expand the boys' room and increase their closet space, and I want to put in one shelf per child for their stuff.

DH and I built our first piece of furniture last month! It's a narrow table that will fit perfectly in our little kitchen. We're so excited to be able to build things ourselves. We found a blog that is just full of fabulous furniture projects, and I was having a hard time containing myself.

Also this month we began planning our garden, which we're revising to a Square Foot Garden. We're hoping the changes will bring us more food for less work, though the cost outlay so far has been slightly higher than usual.

This pregnancy is totally normal, like the others. Being the self-sufficient type, I've found that fewer and fewer people offer any sort of opinion, advice, or help the more pregancies I go through. Pretty soon I'll expect little more than a nod and a wave when I announce a new LO. I just hope it sinks in a little more for DH and I, so we can enjoy this pregnancy to the fullest.

Congrats to Prairiebird and Peaceful_mama!
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