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What Does "Natural Parenting" Mean?

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So I am trying to find some people in my area I can connect with, I moved here and then had a baby, so I never worked here, or went to school here, which is generally about the only ways I meet people, and.. well, it's been a couple years now. I am part of our area's Freecycle group, and we more recently started a sub-group geared more to sharing ideas and asking opinions and such like.

I decided it may be a good way to try to find some people to get to know, with the idea of a playgroup. Well, instead of explaining too much more, let me copy and paste.

My initial message: "We have a 2 year old daughter and are expecting another this summer. We would like to be able to get together with other families for her to play and us to meet some like-minded people. Mostly I am just too cooped up! It would be nice to be able to get together with other people who try to keep toward natural parenting styles and have conversations with people over the age of 5. Let me know if you are interested or might know someone who is, please!"

What I am trying to figure out how to answer: "2 questions.. First what is a "Crunchy Play Group?? and second what is "Natural Parenting Styles"??.. Is that the old fashion way to raise kids?? Spare the rod spoil the child??? That should get the group chatting.. I do like the adult chatter also as I am home alone during the day and then work by myself at night.. I see my family on the weekends.."

I started with trying to give a general idea, then I started googling to find an easy, well-worded, relatively brief overview, then I gave that up and started trying to list some of the main points natural parenting is concerned with, and then.. well, I came here. I can't seem to figure out how to wrap it up neatly and understandably and all-encompassingly?

I do plan to also add what it means specifically to my family, with the addition of the fact that I am not really trying to find people who do everything exactly like us.

Can anyone help me?
post #2 of 3
Eh, I think it is certainly one of those terms that can mean many different things to many different people...That of course is not helpful to you though so I am going to try and explain what it means to me and my family. As I have discovered like you, easier said than done..

Natural Parenting to me is an approach to raising my daughter in a way that is the most mentally/physically healthy for her. Instead of her conforming to my schedule I make my schedule about her needs. Needs based is another way I would describe. To be really simple and do something I was taught never to do my entire schooling career I will use the word in the definition. Natural parenting to me is following my daughter's cues and responding in a way to those cues that is natural and appropriate for the moment. I in no way try to follow the conventional parenting rules of today (cio, feeding purees, non-cosleeping etc.). It is all about what works best for the baby and us as a family. Natural also invokes environmental thoughts in my head and we try to raise her in an environmentally friendly way. Growing out foods for her to eat, CD (just getting the hang of that one), eco-friendly toys (no plastic crap) etc.

Does that help at all? It is really hard Goodluck with that.
post #3 of 3
I think that even on MDC you'll find a spectrum of answers to that question.

Is it natural childbirth? Extended breastfeeding? Babywearing? Child-led weaning? Whole foods nutrition? Gentle discipline? Natural consequences? Consensual living? Co-sleeping? Natural home? Environmental consciousness?

I find that, while I'm in various points on the scale in different categories (had an epidural, but then nursed for four years, for example), I can relate more to people who are at least aware of some of these ideas. You're never going to find people who agree with you on everything 100% of the time--and if you did, you'd probably be bored with them--but if you can see eye to eye on some things and agree to disagree with others, then you're on your way.
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