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post #21 of 26
be sure to make eye contact during feeding time, keep baby nearby the rest of the family and dont sweat the rest. have you read The Continuum Concept? i highly recommend it!
post #22 of 26
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Originally Posted by hakeber View Post
So do you do this during all their waking hours?
No. We have our quiet times too. I think there is a lot of value in being spoken to and also just them observing things.
post #23 of 26
I felt the same as you do!!! I felt so awkward, I ran out of small talk, and didn't know what to say. If you're not a big conversationalist it is hard at that age when they are so new, it definitely was for me. But don't worry, just keep saying as much as you can, (I really didn't talk as much as I probably should have) once your babe starts moving around a little bit and making eye contact/smiling, it gets sooo much easier I promise. Mostly because your just oohing and awwe-ing over every little new thing your baby does.

Now my baby is 7 months now and we have full on 'conversations' with each other all the time! She really loves it when I am talking directly to her and get's super excited and smiley.
post #24 of 26
I felt weird talking to her at first too. I can't say when, exactly, it stopped feeling weird, but it does become a natural thing. She's 12 months now and I'm always talking to her or around her. Keep in mind, bathing her in language doesn't mean you have to talk to her all the time. Talking to anyone around her still counts.

Now, I do a lot of explanation and narrating and redirecting with my language. If I'm going into the kitchen to prepare dinner, I'll say "Mommy's gonna go in the kitchen, do you wanna come?" and I'll wave my hands in the direction of the kitchen to see if she'll follow. If she doesn't, then I say "Okay, I'll be in the kitchen, you can stay and play." And I'll periodically peek my head back into the room and comment on whatever she's doing. If she follows me, then I'll spend my time telling her what I'm doing or asking her to stay out of the trash can or asking her not to climb on the dishwasher door or asking her if she wants a bite of whatever I'm making, then I'll tell her what it is I'm feeding her and ask her if she likes it, is it yummy, Mommy thinks it's pretty yummy, etc, etc, etc...

You really do get the hang of it. Small talk, singing, reading to her... it all seemed strange to me when she was a newborn. But now, I can make a song out of anything and have one sided conversations until I'm blue in the face. Has it made her talk any earlier? Nope, no consistent words coming from her yet. But she is very expressive and loves to "talk" with me.
post #25 of 26
I always narrated, it took a little while to get used to but now we've gotten to the point where I'm telling an empty grocery cart that we're going to make pizza crust with the yeast we just bought because DS is at home with DH.
post #26 of 26
I will admit DS and I have a lot of quiet time, while we are by ourselves during the day. I do make a point to read books to him a few times a week, and I usually read my mail outloud to him everyday. We spend a lot of time looking at each other and making faces at each other though, its so cute

He gets PLENTY of noise when my mom gets home (DH & I live with her). She just talks and talks and talks and talks, so I dont think he's going without lol
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