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post #21 of 23
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Originally Posted by hakeber View Post
If daily loads of laundry are not your bag, you can choose either to manage it with pull ups, or if they won't use those or an alternative, limiting liquids and/or waking them for an extra potty-tunity in the middle of the night. None of those will cure the wetting tendencies (since this is a matter of physical development) or the sleeping through the pee cues but they will cure the WET BED itself. That's all I was saying.
Maybe that's a good thing to remember: you're looking at it from 2 different angles (physical maturity as in "waking up because I need to pee" as opposed to the effects as in "waking up soaked").
I sometimes find it hard to sort through what is evidence based and what is a myth around that topic (cut out allergens, influence of sugar, ...). Probably it's back to "do what works for family and leave the rest for someone else"!

About my "sunshine chart": this was not "marketed" as a reward but simply as a way to document how often accidents happen. Some urologists use that as a first step. For many children just the fact that they "record" it seems to make them more conscious of the need to use the potty at night. For the mother it might show that she has fewer wet sheets to deal with than she "believed" which can already reduce the stress level.

When I'm on my best mom behavior I manage to say to myself "If that's the worst parenting issue I'm dealing with in this family my life is pretty darn good!"
post #22 of 23
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Originally Posted by proudmomof4 View Post
About my "sunshine chart": this was not "marketed" as a reward but simply as a way to document how often accidents happen. Some urologists use that as a first step. For many children just the fact that they "record" it seems to make them more conscious of the need to use the potty at night. For the mother it might show that she has fewer wet sheets to deal with than she "believed" which can already reduce the stress level.

When I'm on my best mom behavior I manage to say to myself "If that's the worst parenting issue I'm dealing with in this family my life is pretty darn good!"
I like that.
post #23 of 23
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Originally Posted by hakeber View Post
You're disagreeing with what works for decreasing bed wetting for MY kid?

FTR, I never said it cured the tendencies for bed wetting, just that it stopped him from waking up in pee.
I'm sorry, I didn't mean to sound like I was attacking. It wasn't personal, I just am so short on time to post and I wanted to give more info.

This thread has really made me think. My dh had a talk with my son the other day and my son came out and told him that in the a.m. he chooses to pee in the pull-up rather than get up. This bothers me because I've always felt like I was helping him with the pull-up to let his body catch up and not to make the problem worse with blaming or shaming. He has tried several times over the years to go without and would have a few day stretches without going but always would again.

Maybe a "power-through" method of daily sheet changing might be a good experiment. Do you think if I tried this for 2 weeks straight (or something) it might re-train his mind that he's not wearing the pull-up?
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