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post #1 of 8
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I dropped out of college when I had my first baby...I was almost 21 and had been going part time due to having to work since my sophomore year. I had about 45 credits.

I went back to school 18 months ago (had to repeat a handful of things due to their age and/or policies at my new school) and am now one class from getting an Associate's degree in Gen. Ed. (it's called an AGEC) that is certified to transfer as a block to many colleges, including the 3 public universities in my state.

The decision I'm having trouble with is that initially I planned to transfer immediately and get a BA...in something. Anything. Just to be able to say I finished it. But my heart's not in that. I can't find a workable program with a major I can see myself completing.

I'm a very part-time freelance photographer and just getting my feet wet with writing online and I plan to continue pursuing both. I don't *have* to make a considerable amount of money, but I'd like to, for a multitude of reasons. My primary committment is to our home and four children, whom we homeschool and one of whom is medically fragile. Dh is supportive of whatever I want and expects to be the sole breadwinner. I realize I am VERY lucky and I want to make a responsible decision that is the best thing for our family financially. The pricetag on the BA is a LOT. We have a HUGE balance on our student loans, mostly dh's, and it's very important to both of us to pay them off in the next 5 years so we can then pay off our mortgage.

I think I feel that it'd be more practical to pursue something that could lead more directly to paid employment, even if it's freelance or I'm self-employed. I don't feel that having a BA in Liberal Studies is necessarily going to translate into paying work as there as there's no specific training for a particular field in there.

I have a few other options instead of pursuing a BA at this time--all are significantly less expensive than the $160-$450 per credit that finishing my BA would require:

1) eLearning Design - a fairly new offering at my CC....a certificate would require an 21 additional credits and an AAS would require 18 additional credits on top of that 21 so 39 total...$70/credit and most every course would be benefitical to me as a self-employed person...there's a focus on writing online content and several of business/marketing courses with the AAS. Supposedly I can design online course content at the lower-division undergrad level and work from home with this.

2) Stop at the AGEC and finish my CPP, which is a professional photography certification...teaching workshops is something I've considered and this would help with credibility.

3) Another certificate or program...have considered childbirth education certification and even becoming certified as an organic gardening instructor....any suggestions? My school has a Creative Writing certificate and they likely will add an AA in the future...if I did the cert. and they do add the AA, I would then be able to "upgrade" to the AA.

I'm so torn. I really don't think it would be *right* to spend $20k+ more on a 4-year degree I really have no intention of using directly. And my mom thinks it'd be plain stupid to earn 39 more credits on top of the 70+ I have...for a second Associate's degree. She even thinks another 21 credits for a certificate would be crazy. My dh is very supportive of whatever I decide but he thinks the AAS in eLearning Design would be most likely to lead to paid work.

Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated! I have to decide soon. It's time to register for Spring (late start) and I need to know if I'm registering at all and if I am, what it's going to be. I've never felt so indecisive in my life!!
post #2 of 8
From what you've said.... I wouldn't do the BA. If your heart is not in it, that's a lot of time and money, especially if you don't see something you'd like to complete.

On the other stuff, go with your gut. What would make you most happy? It kinda sounds like the eDesign thing, but you have some really good options and choices that would probably be income producing in the future. So maybe sort out what is a hobby and what would you like to use for income?

Maybe if you can't chose which one you wish to commit to, then don't register for this semester to take a chance to get a clear view on what you really want.
post #3 of 8
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Thanks Theia! I appreciate the advice. I know it's a very complicated question!!

I might be able to take a term off...I've used FA to pay for my tuition and books, so I have to see if that's a no-no! If I can't take spring off, I know I can take summer off...so I may have to get through two more classes before I can take a break to decide!
post #4 of 8
I would not get the BA. It does not sound practical to me at all.

As far as the other stuff goes..I think it depends a little on your personality. Are you well organized enough to run a successful home based business? If so photography could make you some money pretty quickly if you market yourself right and actually do have some talent there. I am not sure about the writing online. I have never seen anyone be able to make money at that..but that doesn't mean it's not possible. I just don't have any experience or know anyone who has been able to successfully do that. But, if you feel like that would be a better fit for you than running an actual business from home, then maybe you should pursue that.

The other options you mentioned don't seem to be your top choices so that's why I didn't address those..but again I just think it's whatever you feel you will be a success at and enjoy! Which definitely is not the BA.

Plus i have recently seen my sister and a friend both graduate and not find anything that they couldn't have been hired at without that degree. I personally feel that unless you have a very specific major, with a specific job in mind, a BA is not going to do you a whole lot of good in this economy. Just my two cents though, I know some will disagree.
post #5 of 8
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I tend to agree with you too--I have a couple close family members with prestigious but vague degrees and one has been unemployed for over a year and another makes about $9/hour working retail, which she could have done without the 5 years of school.

I will admit I am not a wonderful business person. I have been working as a freelance photographer for the better part of 5 years and make a very part-time income doing it. I actually prefer to work for free! But I know that with proper care and feeding, it could be a reliable second income for us. I thought perhaps the business classes related to the eLearning design degree would also help me run my business. I'm not 100% sure my heart is in the eLearning design thing though. I'm almost wondering if maybe just taking a few biz classes or perhap a double major in biz for my associate's would be beneficial.

Nothing says I can't finish a BA in 5-10 years as well. I might even be able to get more credit for experience if I wait--there are some super-flexible options now and I can only imagine that will continue.
post #6 of 8
I had been doing the one class per semester for years and I finally graduated with an AA. Then I discovered a program for Occupational Therapy Asst. at the same community college I was attending. It was a two year intensive program and I already had most of the pre reqs done. It has given me a fulfilling job that pays decently and I have a lot of flexibility. I want to go back to school again SOMEDAY. I'm pregnant with baby #4 so it won't be for a while. I spent too many years stressing over school! If I had gone on for a bachelor's I would probably still be in school and stuck in a job that I did not like.
post #7 of 8
I have to agree with the ap's, a BA won't do much for you, but add a ton of debt. Frankly, I wouldn't spend a bunch of money and time on something that you "might" want to do. However, if you need a reason to get out of the house, by all means!!

There is free training to become a Master Gardener in some states. You can find out about it at your State government website. You "pay" for it with volunteer hours.
post #8 of 8
Thread Starter 
Ooooh, great idea. I will check into that. It's really becoming clear that the time and expense involved in getting a BA is not a good idea. I know there are always the "what ifs?" but it's a huge investment for a what if.
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