Do I go to the VBAC meeting and share if asked? Or just not go and miss the chance to volunteer for something like outreach to the community? I think that if I do go it would be really hard not to share.
I've been forced into a similar situation with my HBAC story. It had some twists and turns that may not be the "perfect" HB, but it was my reality and is just as possible for anyone else. So if people start asking about my HBAC, I'll tell them yes, I transferred (twice) but safety was our first goal, but in the end it worked out well and yes, I had my HBAC.