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scared to test!

post #1 of 10
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So last July I had an early (6 week) m/c and have since been scared to try until this month. I haven't even been charting or anything and my cycles seemed to have shortened, so I'm not really sure anymore what I'm looking at in terms of LP- but since the m/c my cycles have been 28/29 days long. I used opks this month and think I ovulated on CD17 (march 1st), lmp of Feb 12th. So, in terms of cycle length it's been almost 31 days now...but in terms of a good LP I'm still only 13 dpo, will be 14 dpo tomorrow. I have one pregnancy test sitting in my cabinet but I can't bring myself to use it because I'm terrified of the answer either way! And I'm worried that I'll test, and then get af like 5 minutes later . Also this means absolutely nothing but today I found my BBT, and my temp was 99.00 which is high for me-- but since I took it mid day it doesn't count for anything anyway.
Anyway, I don't even know what I'm asking!! Mostly just venting. Maybe asking for opinions though on what I'm not sure... my chances of being pg? If I should get my nerve up and test yet or wait a few more days?....

Thanks ladies
post #2 of 10
I always find testing puts me into a crazed limboland. If it's negative I don't believe it but my hopes are crushed. If it's positive I go nuts worrying. Hang in there, girl!
post #3 of 10
Thread Starter 
haha yep that's about where I'm at. I keep almost reaching for the test and then reasoning with myself that if it's negative I'll be sad and think maybe its just too early (even though I think at 13 dpo it shouldnt be neg if I am pregnant...but possibly)...and then if it's positive I'd start freaking and worrying and am I really READY to know yet? LOL
post #4 of 10
I was there just a few weeks ago and when I got my BFP I bawled my eyes out because I was so scared. I say wait. If you are pg then you will know soon enough, if you aren't then AF is usually gentler than a BFN in my opinion at least Keep us updated.
post #5 of 10
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well I did it anyway, and I got a nice strong BFP!!! Sticky vibes please!!!
post #6 of 10
Congratulations ...



xx
post #7 of 10
Congratulations!!!!
post #8 of 10
Congratulations and (((HUGS)))!!!

Are you feeling good?
post #9 of 10
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!
post #10 of 10
Congratulations!!!!! Yipppeeeee!!!!
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