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An encouraging word

post #1 of 13
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I know many of us are going through tough times but I wanted to share an encouraging word with everyone:

I finally obtained my dream of homeownership before 30. As a single parent I never dreamed I would buy a house on my own. I always thought it would be something I did with my husband, hence the reason I waited until 28. But one day last year I woke up and said "No more!"

I found my house in January and closed on it Feb25. I have never been happier. Sure it's strange with me and my 19 month old in this big 3bd room house but we just lay in the middle of the floor and laugh, eat and play. It's OUR house.

I have a great and supportive family that encouraged me the entire way and my son's father was supportiive as well. as much as I wished he and I were moving into the house together, we didn't and I'm ok with that. This is a new beginning for us and I am so happy. Not to mention I'm only paying $60 more than I was paying in rent.

I say all this to say: there is light at the end of the tunnel. It gets lonely, it gets hard but at some point we finally get to exhale and get what we bust our butts for. Don't ever let someone tell you you aren't good enough or worthy because you are.
post #2 of 13


Thank you SO much for this. Really.

I just literally did a happy dance in my living room because I found out I *DO* have enough in checking to get the car repair I need this week.
post #3 of 13
Congratulations Mama!! That is a huge accomplishment!
post #4 of 13
congratulations
post #5 of 13
Congratulations! You two enjoy your new digs!
post #6 of 13
CONGRATULATIONS mama!!!!! this came at the right time.

i am sooo overwhelmed with school and financial issues that i want to just run away from it all. it is just sooooo hard. i want to give up and run everyday and throw in the towel.

so TY for sharing this. if you can fulfill your dream... so can i.
post #7 of 13
congrats mama! that is just wonderful. you give me hope. I too have home ownership as a dream too! I had my goal set at 30 too.... but seeing that Im going to be 27 this yr Im not sure thats gonna happen. buy you never know. Im keeping the faith. I cannot wait for the day we have our very own piece of heaven. good for you!
post #8 of 13
YAY!!!! Good for you mama!!! I'm SO happy for you! Congrats!
post #9 of 13
Congrats Mama. I am so happy for you! I can't wait until I can buy a house. Right now I feel so tired and overwhelmed with my 2 LO's, school, my divorce etc and sometimes it feels like I am doing so much and not seeing any results. I know there is a light at the end of the tunnel and that everything I am doing and sacrificing is worth it.
post #10 of 13
Thread Starter 
I'm glad my word was able to encourage and help some. You guys, I'm telling you, it is possible. Make a plan and stick to it. It can happen for you. Now let's see if I can make these other plans happen too.
post #11 of 13
Congratulations!!! That is really amazing!!
post #12 of 13
Well done!
post #13 of 13
congrats akapi!!!
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