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Anyway, does anybody have a service or therapy dog and can share what tasks the dogs assist with?
Or, does anybody have a family pet who is trained to do special needs jobs?
Also, any advice re: getting the child to bond with the dog? My boy is distractable and oblivious to other kids. he sees something interesting happening for a moment then abruptly wanders away from it - how do I get him to pay attention to the dog long enough to bond with it and benefit from the social/emotional support relationship? |
Chrissy,
A properly chosen and trained dog can assist with literally anything your child may need help with....for example, if he struggled w/talking and communication, the dog can be trained to be a therapeutic listening aid--laying still at your son's side to give him a non-judgemental ear and encouragement OR he could be trained to lay still at your son's bedside to give him solid sensory input to help him get to sleep and stay asleep OR he could be trained to be a physical support for your son if he has balance issues OR he can even be trained to know and respond to your son's behavior such as outbursts by nudging and leading your son to an appropriate place/environment where he is more likely to be able to gather himself together (this, in turn, can lead to him learning to maintain more self control). A well chosen and trained dog can do all of those things, and more.
I'm firmly of the belief that the dog must be well chosen first-- in size and temperament--long before you even consider the training. You can teach the right dog almost anything, but you can't redo the basic temperament or rebuild the "wrong" dog.
I think training should be done in conjunction w/a positive methods trainer who has experience training dogs for assistance or therapy purposes, and it certainly can be helpful if that trainer also has a fondness for kids and some knowledge of the disability and needs. It can be difficult to find someone to meet all of that criteria, but if you plan on starting now and doing your homework...you can do it.
If the right dog is chosen, you can begin much of the training process at home, including proper socialization. You just need the right info and how-to straight from the beginning. The website of the Association of Pet Dog Trainers can be a great place to start (
www.APDT.com), along w/the books by trainers such as Ian Dunbar, Pat Miller, Trish McConnell, Jean Donaldson, etc.
As for the right dog...and bonding to your son...breeds such as Labs, Goldens, and pit bulls or mixes thereof are often good choices. You want a dog w/a really solid desire to be w/people, who LOVES children (not just likes or tolerates, but really LOVES), does not have wierd fears or phobias of things, has a happy-go-lucky personality, and is not over-reactive to environmental stimuli (can relax in new situations, isn't going to jump up at every noise or sudden change). Being large enough to be a stable physical support, as well as take the rough housing of a child, can be helpful, but isn't always necessary. One of the dogs I worked w/was a tiny pit bull--maybe 40 lbs--she was solid enough to handle children well (not likely to be injured accidentally by a kid), but not so big that she overwhelmed small kids w/her size (perfect for the family she lived with--3 yr old son had some special disabilities, mainly w/communication). She actually was adopted from our local animal shelter at about 1 yr old and was fabulous--so easy to train and work with. Having a desire to retrieve (fetch) can be helpful--even if you don't think your child needs her to pick things up for him--b/c trainers can use that retrieve drive to teach so many skills, plus fetch is a great bonding tool w/kids and easy exercise for all.
Setting the dog up to bond w/your son can be a fairly simple process--you help him learn how to feed the dog and care for the dog, put the dog's crate and main sleeping area in his room, feed her in his room, give her lots of reinforcement and attention for staying close to him, etc.
Hopefully, that all makes sense.....I'm getting test results back on ds1 this week, ds2 and I are sick, and I just learned that I'm pregnant w/dc3....I'm a little scatter brained and up too late! LOL
GL!
mrsfru