I was just diagnosed as having Type 2 diabetes a few weeks ago, and I must admit I'm freaking out a little bit about what this means for my future baby-having plans.
Quick (or not-so-quick) background: I'm just shy of 32, no kids yet, hoping to start trying to conceive in 2-3 years (probably through IUI, as I'm both single and bisexual). Waiting a couple of years, while necessary to get my life in order, means I'll likely be of "advanced maternal age" if/when I get pregnant. I've been pre-diabetic for a couple of years, since gaining quite a bit of weight after starting grad school and going from exercising daily to being a completely sedentary academic type. I've always been heavier, even when doing all that exercise, but have definitely felt the effects of the added weight in many ways and have every intention of getting back into shape (any second now). My A1C was 6.6% (6.5% and over = diabetic), but my BG has been in the high-normal range since I started testing it right after being diagnosed. I've been working on diet (lower carb and portion control) and exercise, and my doctor also prescribed 500 mg of Metformin ER/day. He gave me the option of whether or not to start medication right away or just to work on diet/exercise for the moment, and we decided that the Met would help while I'm working on losing weight and getting into an exercise routine. I'm actually fairly happy to stay on it--I'm not having any of the GI side effects many have, and the diabetes educator who taught the class I just finished says Metformin can help preserve long-term pancreas function by lowering your body’s demands for insulin production. I know I need to get into much better shape before I have a baby anyway, so none of this is horrible. It's probably a really good wake-up call for me to get my house in order, physically speaking.
The real reason I'm freaking is because the diabetes educator told me that if I have type 2 diabetes I will definitely have to be on insulin during pregnancy . In fact, she was so insistent on this notion that when I was trying to say to her "if I am on insulin, then I will not be able to see a midwife...." she kept interrupting me to say "you'll definitely have to be on insulin," not seeming to understand that I wasn’t questioning her professional opinion (she made it sound like I was being insanely naïve), but trying to explain to her that people on insulin are usually risked out of midwivery care. And that's my fear, that I will not be able to have the natural childbirth I desire because of this diagnosis. Even being controlled with just Metformin (which some MDs think is okay and some don't during pregnancy) would probably mean being considered high risk and forced to go the highly-medicalized route, and though I’m fairly certain I can get to a diet and exercise controlled place with my diabetes now, I know that insulin resistance is intense in pregnancy because the placenta puts out some hormone or other. I don’t necessarily have an idealized vision of the beautiful natural birth experience, so much as a deep fear of snowballing interventions—according to my reading diabetic pregnancies are usually induced on or before the due date because the placenta decays faster in diabetic women (as well as for the much less medically relevant “big baby” issue, which isn’t actually an issue at all if your BS is controlled during pregnancy, even by insulin), there is significantly more monitoring going on in a high risk birth, as well as possible insulin/glucose IVs during birth, which means much less mobility during the process, if your baby’s BS is low after birth, they try to feed formula/sugar water to raise it, rather than encouraging BF. All-in-all, I feel like I’ll be fighting the system, more than having a baby. I'm convinced that they're going to want to induce, that I'm going to end up having a c-section. If that's truly what's best for my baby, then so be it, but everything I've heard indicates that a lot of the "medically necessary" interventions are caused by the very medicalized mentality of the high risk OB, and I don’t want that.
I'm not sure what I'm hoping anyone will say in response to all this. I'd like to know if anyone is/knows a type 2 diabetic who was able to control her BS through diet during pregnancy (avoiding insulin). Or, a diabetic of any stripe, GD, Type 1 or 2, who was able to have a midwife or natural childbirth (beyond simply not having an epidural), and how they were able to negotiate that. Or, maybe suggestions on how to be empowered to make decisions that will help me avoid interventions if I have to be treated by high risk doctors and do the constant NSTs and ultrasounds and… stuff… that “high risk” requires—to walk the line between being sure my baby is safe and that I’m not being needless stubborn and just caving to their “expertise?”
I know I'm putting the cart three years ahead of the horse, and I shouldn't be fretting about all this when who knows what the future holds, but it's all I can think about since I got slapped with the diabetes label. I really just want this diagnosis not to be something that crushes my dreams as well as my ability to heedlessly eat ice cream....
Quick (or not-so-quick) background: I'm just shy of 32, no kids yet, hoping to start trying to conceive in 2-3 years (probably through IUI, as I'm both single and bisexual). Waiting a couple of years, while necessary to get my life in order, means I'll likely be of "advanced maternal age" if/when I get pregnant. I've been pre-diabetic for a couple of years, since gaining quite a bit of weight after starting grad school and going from exercising daily to being a completely sedentary academic type. I've always been heavier, even when doing all that exercise, but have definitely felt the effects of the added weight in many ways and have every intention of getting back into shape (any second now). My A1C was 6.6% (6.5% and over = diabetic), but my BG has been in the high-normal range since I started testing it right after being diagnosed. I've been working on diet (lower carb and portion control) and exercise, and my doctor also prescribed 500 mg of Metformin ER/day. He gave me the option of whether or not to start medication right away or just to work on diet/exercise for the moment, and we decided that the Met would help while I'm working on losing weight and getting into an exercise routine. I'm actually fairly happy to stay on it--I'm not having any of the GI side effects many have, and the diabetes educator who taught the class I just finished says Metformin can help preserve long-term pancreas function by lowering your body’s demands for insulin production. I know I need to get into much better shape before I have a baby anyway, so none of this is horrible. It's probably a really good wake-up call for me to get my house in order, physically speaking.
The real reason I'm freaking is because the diabetes educator told me that if I have type 2 diabetes I will definitely have to be on insulin during pregnancy . In fact, she was so insistent on this notion that when I was trying to say to her "if I am on insulin, then I will not be able to see a midwife...." she kept interrupting me to say "you'll definitely have to be on insulin," not seeming to understand that I wasn’t questioning her professional opinion (she made it sound like I was being insanely naïve), but trying to explain to her that people on insulin are usually risked out of midwivery care. And that's my fear, that I will not be able to have the natural childbirth I desire because of this diagnosis. Even being controlled with just Metformin (which some MDs think is okay and some don't during pregnancy) would probably mean being considered high risk and forced to go the highly-medicalized route, and though I’m fairly certain I can get to a diet and exercise controlled place with my diabetes now, I know that insulin resistance is intense in pregnancy because the placenta puts out some hormone or other. I don’t necessarily have an idealized vision of the beautiful natural birth experience, so much as a deep fear of snowballing interventions—according to my reading diabetic pregnancies are usually induced on or before the due date because the placenta decays faster in diabetic women (as well as for the much less medically relevant “big baby” issue, which isn’t actually an issue at all if your BS is controlled during pregnancy, even by insulin), there is significantly more monitoring going on in a high risk birth, as well as possible insulin/glucose IVs during birth, which means much less mobility during the process, if your baby’s BS is low after birth, they try to feed formula/sugar water to raise it, rather than encouraging BF. All-in-all, I feel like I’ll be fighting the system, more than having a baby. I'm convinced that they're going to want to induce, that I'm going to end up having a c-section. If that's truly what's best for my baby, then so be it, but everything I've heard indicates that a lot of the "medically necessary" interventions are caused by the very medicalized mentality of the high risk OB, and I don’t want that.
I'm not sure what I'm hoping anyone will say in response to all this. I'd like to know if anyone is/knows a type 2 diabetic who was able to control her BS through diet during pregnancy (avoiding insulin). Or, a diabetic of any stripe, GD, Type 1 or 2, who was able to have a midwife or natural childbirth (beyond simply not having an epidural), and how they were able to negotiate that. Or, maybe suggestions on how to be empowered to make decisions that will help me avoid interventions if I have to be treated by high risk doctors and do the constant NSTs and ultrasounds and… stuff… that “high risk” requires—to walk the line between being sure my baby is safe and that I’m not being needless stubborn and just caving to their “expertise?”
I know I'm putting the cart three years ahead of the horse, and I shouldn't be fretting about all this when who knows what the future holds, but it's all I can think about since I got slapped with the diabetes label. I really just want this diagnosis not to be something that crushes my dreams as well as my ability to heedlessly eat ice cream....







