I just had my DD 6 days ago at home and need some help with processing what happened...
I ended up giving birth to her in my bathtub and it was a beautiful birth. Everything was perfect. She responded well too me when I was holding her. Everything seemed fine to my husband and I, until my midwife said she wasn't breathing well, that she had inhaled some water, was too cold, and that we needed to go to the hospital. My midwife said she needed oxygen, but didn't carry any on her. All of a sudden we have an ambulance at our house with EMT's around. It just seemed so unreal. I was seperated from my baby for around two hours as I tried to recover myself before going to the hospital and I was given two shots of Methergine. My husband told me afterwards though that her oxygen levels were fine in the ride over and she throw up the water on her own and looked fine after that just in the ambulance.
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So to make a long story short I am trying to understand how she could have possibly inhaled the water and if the hospital trip was even worth it in the first place. I have a lot of wavering feelings about it. Was it better to error on the side of caution? She did look very purple when I see the pictures and she never had a strong cry, she sounded very weak. When I saw her in the incubator she looked healthy, pink and beautiful. I have good days and bad.
The midwives said she inhaled the water b/c my husband and I were touching her head and body before she had completely came out of my body and that triggered a reflex. My husband and I never saw any part of her body or umbilical cord touch the air, as that is what I always thought was what triggered the reflex to inhale. It was all a blur to us anyway though so our minds aren't very reliable. Her cord was very very short and I think somehow as I repositoned and my husband was lifting her up that maybe that is where the water got inhaled.
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Can anyone give me there thoughts on this? How could she have inhaled the water? Does touching the baby before they completely come out cause the reflex to breath? And was the hospital trip even worthwhile?
Edited by CaptCourt - 4/6/11 at 5:42am












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