We're moving soon, from a little condo in a fancy-schmancy part of town to a great house in a more normal part of town. It's just across district lines, so DS will be changing schools next year (he'll be going into 1st grade). I hadn't thought much about it apart from the potential impact on DS having to make new friends, but it seems like every time I tell someone which school he'll be attending they have some strange comment like, "Well, my friend's DD goes there and says it's fine, so don't worry," or, "Well, maybe you can apply for a transfer." Huh? 
So today I mentioned it to someone again and she said, "Oh, my kids go there! People say stuff, but it's like, oh well." Finally I asked, "What do people say?" and she told me that it has a bit of a "negative" reputation because it's more diverse than other schools in the area (meaning, there actually are people of color there -- the other schools in town are nearly all Caucasian) and is a Title I school. I already knew about the greater diversity and the fact that many of the families there aren't as affluent as in other areas of town, and I actually see that as a positive thing because I live in a place (Orange County, CA) where people can get extremely hung up on outward appearance/possessions. We're certainly not rich, so having DS make friends with other kids who aren't getting BMWs for their 16th birthdays is a good thing, IMO.
But I had never heard of Title I, so I looked it up and see that it means the school qualifies for extra funding because a certain percentage of the students come from lower income families.
Are all those things really so negative, or are some of the people I talk to just showing subtle classist/racist tendencies? Also, do your kids attend a Title I school? Have you experienced any of this stigma? Anything else you can share with me about it?

So today I mentioned it to someone again and she said, "Oh, my kids go there! People say stuff, but it's like, oh well." Finally I asked, "What do people say?" and she told me that it has a bit of a "negative" reputation because it's more diverse than other schools in the area (meaning, there actually are people of color there -- the other schools in town are nearly all Caucasian) and is a Title I school. I already knew about the greater diversity and the fact that many of the families there aren't as affluent as in other areas of town, and I actually see that as a positive thing because I live in a place (Orange County, CA) where people can get extremely hung up on outward appearance/possessions. We're certainly not rich, so having DS make friends with other kids who aren't getting BMWs for their 16th birthdays is a good thing, IMO.

But I had never heard of Title I, so I looked it up and see that it means the school qualifies for extra funding because a certain percentage of the students come from lower income families.
Are all those things really so negative, or are some of the people I talk to just showing subtle classist/racist tendencies? Also, do your kids attend a Title I school? Have you experienced any of this stigma? Anything else you can share with me about it?











